Message from @Szayel's Pooppion
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Now coming to this realization and asking for forgiveness, I see now that my sharpness is really anger. I hope that I will be able to overcome that.
Yes I know what you mean there. Before I woke up I was an angry girl, being defensive was also how I had to learn to live
After being woke I saw where I had to draw the line. For instance now that I'm christian I try my hardest not to lose my temper with people anymore like when I was young. It's all about self improvement now & unlearning the things we had to unfortunately learn in our environments
Agreed.
That said we can't undo everything in our conditioning. I'll always be assertive and stand up for what's right. But at least now that's more polished so that I'm not just coming off as only being aggressive
@csquare In a relationship
he's an alpha
I can deff vouch that his assertiveness makes my assertiveness look tiny.
@Szayel's Pooppion That's good. Is he a Christian?
yep (:
I think meeting him helped guide me to the true faith as well
sorry ppl keep walking up to me and talking IRL, I was wondering : when one is in an argument with an assertive woman - why do they always say LET ME TALK
@csquare Simply put: defensive behavior.
My wife doesnt do that. Just the ones before her
Think of a bull. When it sees red, it goes crazy. It will keep charging until it doesn't see anymore red regardless of the environment.
Oh ya, is that what you mean by assertive or is that something else?
I don't think I do that tbh lol
hha that is what I am asking poop
Well you have a good, submissive, Godly woman.
Like assertive is different than just aggressive
ya she good gal
Assertive is borderline aggressive
I think it can be
Just knowing to speak your mind and stand up for what is right
doing so in a firm manner
I think some women can be more than others
But as long as they're being assertive alongside what is godly
liberal assertive women are obv bad hahah
That's just it, speaking up is speaking up. Assertion is to push something onto someone in a slightly aggressive manner.
hmm
like being a backseat driver
haha
I can see where that happens
YOU WERE SUPPOSE TO TURN!
😃
I think I probably have a habit of that then.
when I'm passionate about a topic I usually speak & write on it with passion and a force I guess
But a lot of times my intend isn't to actually be aggressive
Yeah same here but most females are like that though.
@csquare is your wife outspoken or reserved?