Agreed.

That said we can't undo everything in our conditioning. I'll always be assertive and stand up for what's right. But at least now that's more polished so that I'm not just coming off as only being aggressive

@csquare In a relationship

he's an alpha

I can deff vouch that his assertiveness makes my assertiveness look tiny.

@Szayel's Pooppion That's good. Is he a Christian?

yep (:

I think meeting him helped guide me to the true faith as well

sorry ppl keep walking up to me and talking IRL, I was wondering : when one is in an argument with an assertive woman - why do they always say LET ME TALK

@csquare Simply put: defensive behavior.

My wife doesnt do that. Just the ones before her

Think of a bull. When it sees red, it goes crazy. It will keep charging until it doesn't see anymore red regardless of the environment.

Oh ya, is that what you mean by assertive or is that something else?

I don't think I do that tbh lol

hha that is what I am asking poop

Well you have a good, submissive, Godly woman.

Like assertive is different than just aggressive

so I don't mean to confuse that

ya she good gal

Assertive is borderline aggressive

I think it can be

Just knowing to speak your mind and stand up for what is right

doing so in a firm manner

I think some women can be more than others

But as long as they're being assertive alongside what is godly

liberal assertive women are obv bad hahah

That's just it, speaking up is speaking up. Assertion is to push something onto someone in a slightly aggressive manner.

hmm

like being a backseat driver

haha

I can see where that happens

YOU WERE SUPPOSE TO TURN!

😃

I think I probably have a habit of that then.

when I'm passionate about a topic I usually speak & write on it with passion and a force I guess

But a lot of times my intend isn't to actually be aggressive

Yeah same here but most females are like that though.

@csquare is your wife outspoken or reserved?

I love submissive women as long as it's in the right and godly way

reserved defo, but I know her.. so she tells me everything and I listen

I take her advice the best I can