But luckily for all this is after you die. and luckily for many I left you all clues how to come to god while on Earth.

Path, rules, everything is already defined through sin and through works of god.

Jesse Lee peterson and belief in God through Christ that is happening in America is Amazinnnn'. That's all I will say. God bless you all\

What have you done to better yourself today?

@noobpocket Had a nice long convo with my stepdad and forgave him and asked for his forgiveness. I am feeling more complete! 😊

Started my first day of school at community college, and ordered the books I’d need for all my classes. I had stuff come up before I got to school today, but I thanked God (literally) that it was not worse and that everything still worked out fine.

I worked out until I couldn’t stand

Then ate some chicken

@Deleted User - That's excellent! That's a very brave thing to do, and takes guts. You're moving into the house of God by your actions. Outstanding, madame.

@Szayel's Pooppion - Taking a first step is difficult, but you moving forward is a good indicator that you are ready for growth. Treat every day as a chance to improve yourself and soon you'll be seeing results. 😃

@PastPresentFuture - You're a Chad, Tim.

@noobpocket you’re more Chad hank

😎

@noobpocket Thanks, bro!

I've been improving myself by going to work every day, drinking a lot of water, and improving my fitness. I'm going to be getting a gym membership here soon, but I'm going to need transportation to do that. But I still have weights at my house, and my back yard is a field, so I can easily do some cardio, lift, and everything here.. So this weekend I'll be starting that.

But more importantly, I'm focused on my goals, which are continuing to discipline myself. Being a man to me means doing things that are difficult, or sometimes doing things you don't want to do. A well-rounded person can handle many different situations. I want to be a person like that.

I’m proud of you hank. #nofear

Thanks, brother! You, too.

Next time I go to the grocery store I'll be getting some stuff to do meal prep. That's going to be part of my financial discipline as well.

Part of this probably belongs to <#464144378936688655>, but I guess it's okay because it's relevant to the conversation. Practicing discipline is the thing I've noticed is the most important part to accomplishing your goals.

You are what you do everyday

Everyday

@noobpocket ty sir 💁🏻‍♀️ I truly feel that way too; ready for more growth and able to take on each day as it happens. Lately I’ve been no longer thinking too far ahead & letting the fears and anxieties get to me. Gotta let each day reveal itself.

I spoke with my Stepdad last night. He said to me that alot of men don't like women with overbearing personalities. I told him that I got it from my Mom and he disagreed.

what made him say you are?

@Szayel's Pooppion We this was the discussion that lead to forgiveness with him. He was giving me some advice on how a woman should treat a man. He said many of my boyfriends would talk to him and say that I am overbearing. He would tell them that if I am what they are looking for, give it time but also declare that he is a man.

I don't think it is my personality. It is my charisma that can be smooth or sharp.

If someone messes with me or had gotten me aggravated, I can come off pretty standoffish. I don't intend to be mean but try to have a meaningful argument. But I see what he means. I used to get hurt alot by these beta males: physical abuse, manipulated, etc. So I thought having a stiffer voice and a backbone would protect me.

I guess that is why I would do fine in the military and I guess that is why I preferred to not hang out with other people. I got a friend frustrated at me because I told him what the role of a father should be and he disagreed.

So I just need to take it easy and listen alot more and stop getting so defensive.

Hmm I wonder if that makes me overbearing as well?

I just don't see that actually fitting the definition, you just sound either assertive, or assertive boardering aggressive

I'm assertive myself, so I've had plenty of rl or online situations where people thought I was being aggressive, saying something too sternly, cold, angry or upset. It rarely ever is the case though

Being assertive can deff cost you friends at times as well.

Men that can't overpower a woman's assertiveness is a beta male. lol So I'd say not to worry

Like come on, truly assertive or aggressive men shouldn't have too much problems taming an assertive woman

HAHA

I like the last line

Are yall both single?

or married?

Single