@everyone - What have you done to better yourself today, BOND family?

Morning/Afternoon all.

Today I set a few more goals. Being an artist I've been looking to diversify my talents and improve upon others.
So I've decided on dedicating time to purely studying new things and taking multiple classes to indeed improve in multiple fields.

Because it comes easily it's helping to build confidence and give me the drive to pursue other avenues as well. Including those that lie outside of art as a whole.

Good job sir

I bettered myself today by going to school, set up math tutoring for tomorrow & am studying today <:GWpinkuKannaPat:393081472162201613>

I pooped today

Lol

Seriously though I’ve bettered myself by absolving conflicts between personnel at work.

Being a light unto others

Love it

I have a “I pooped today” pin on one of my backpacks 💩

I am learning more about spiritual warfare to gain strength. That is the most important tool that I need.

not allowing Satan to enter my spiritual door . By resisting the temptations and seeing the lies She spews through her venomous tongue .. Satan has the control of alot of living things now and you can see her in places youd never thought shed be ..

Excellent progress everyone!

By not participating in the drama around me. And not being influenced by it.

Upping the frequency of my silent prayers and better eating habits. 👌

@everyone how has Jesse Lee Peterson's work made an impact on you?

reconsidered the male and female brain function...

@J_G_ The significance of forgiveness.

He gave me the ability to become a man and to leave the nest, and to forge a path for myself. Without him, I’m still be living at my parent’s house.

hello

is jesse here

he's late

Jesse has taught me to be able to deal with the children of the lie without anger. I found it hard to even talk to them before. I have learned to humble myself even though I know I am right. I knew that anger was the most destructive force in my life, but I did not realize how much it controls you. People have always followed me for some reason. I now lead with a good example, and do not let anger get in the way of God's plan for my life.

Does anyone here have experience with forgiving abuse mothers?

abusive*

yes: my mom use to whip with rando objects and a lil slapping and punching. single mom in the south tho

Dont know your extent of abuse, but mine was easy to let go bud

I'm going to forgive her tomorrow, but she is evil and lies and manipulates constantly. I would like to continue keeping her out of my life and receive God's love is this possible?

man o man of course

it is kinda the natural way jump out that nest and fly away

after you turn that rough patch into a growing experience, you can move on, overcome

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It feels like the right thing to do is keep her out of my life.

your welcome

if it helps mine dont even talk to me any more haha

As long as you have Gods love!

Hey @Seven I've recently overcame my abusive mother. I forgave her for her ignorance, forgave her for what she knew was wrong, but did for her pleasure. The truth is, she either didn't know what she was doing, or didnt have control of her self.

Beware the emotional "sobpology" she will use to make you feel sorry for her. JLP teaches truth when he says emotion is not part of manliness. So when she goes into full submit mode, and tries to act helpless she wants your compassion. Dont give it to her, reserve that passion for God, hold your emotion, forgive her, and fly the nest. Fly high and fast.

I have a good couple of questions for Jesse/Any Men to answer:
1) A woman can't give love because the man is the one who is supposed to give it to the woman. How can a single woman move about the world successfully without love from a man?

Women:
2) How do you know when you have met your Alpha male? Did it start off having alot of things in common (like normal) or was it something deeper?

@Deleted User I don't have all of the answers but an alpha won't be emotional and he wont be driven by sexual lust or any other physical pleasures. If he has anger for anyone, he is a beta

@Seven Thank you for your answer. I would like to expand a little on your answer: So, are you saying that a man shouldn't say how he feels about the woman. It is assumed? This is why I am confused.

Sure he can say what he feels, but what he feels should not be lustful or emotional. He should be stoic. Jesse recommends that men and women date for 1 year without sex or any sensuality before getting married and then becoming intimate. This is the best possible scenario for each of you and your future children. So It would be assumed that you spend lots of time with each other and build a spiritual bond before becoming intimate. So naturally I would assume after those 50+ dates you would have a pretty clear understanding that he was into you especially if he respected you enough to reserve his lust.