@everyone how has Jesse Lee Peterson's work made an impact on you?

reconsidered the male and female brain function...

@J_G_ The significance of forgiveness.

He gave me the ability to become a man and to leave the nest, and to forge a path for myself. Without him, I’m still be living at my parent’s house.

hello

is jesse here

he's late

Jesse has taught me to be able to deal with the children of the lie without anger. I found it hard to even talk to them before. I have learned to humble myself even though I know I am right. I knew that anger was the most destructive force in my life, but I did not realize how much it controls you. People have always followed me for some reason. I now lead with a good example, and do not let anger get in the way of God's plan for my life.

Does anyone here have experience with forgiving abuse mothers?

abusive*

yes: my mom use to whip with rando objects and a lil slapping and punching. single mom in the south tho

Dont know your extent of abuse, but mine was easy to let go bud

I'm going to forgive her tomorrow, but she is evil and lies and manipulates constantly. I would like to continue keeping her out of my life and receive God's love is this possible?

man o man of course

it is kinda the natural way jump out that nest and fly away

after you turn that rough patch into a growing experience, you can move on, overcome

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It feels like the right thing to do is keep her out of my life.

your welcome

if it helps mine dont even talk to me any more haha

As long as you have Gods love!

Hey @Seven I've recently overcame my abusive mother. I forgave her for her ignorance, forgave her for what she knew was wrong, but did for her pleasure. The truth is, she either didn't know what she was doing, or didnt have control of her self.

Beware the emotional "sobpology" she will use to make you feel sorry for her. JLP teaches truth when he says emotion is not part of manliness. So when she goes into full submit mode, and tries to act helpless she wants your compassion. Dont give it to her, reserve that passion for God, hold your emotion, forgive her, and fly the nest. Fly high and fast.

I have a good couple of questions for Jesse/Any Men to answer:
1) A woman can't give love because the man is the one who is supposed to give it to the woman. How can a single woman move about the world successfully without love from a man?

Women:
2) How do you know when you have met your Alpha male? Did it start off having alot of things in common (like normal) or was it something deeper?

@Deleted User I don't have all of the answers but an alpha won't be emotional and he wont be driven by sexual lust or any other physical pleasures. If he has anger for anyone, he is a beta

@Seven Thank you for your answer. I would like to expand a little on your answer: So, are you saying that a man shouldn't say how he feels about the woman. It is assumed? This is why I am confused.

Sure he can say what he feels, but what he feels should not be lustful or emotional. He should be stoic. Jesse recommends that men and women date for 1 year without sex or any sensuality before getting married and then becoming intimate. This is the best possible scenario for each of you and your future children. So It would be assumed that you spend lots of time with each other and build a spiritual bond before becoming intimate. So naturally I would assume after those 50+ dates you would have a pretty clear understanding that he was into you especially if he respected you enough to reserve his lust.

Understood, thank you. @Seven

@Seven Do you want to give a stab at the original question? How can a single woman navigate this world without the love of a man?

@Deleted User Sure, it's a great question. She should be still and know God so that he can reveal to her her path, with his love - which is the strongest love - he should fill her heart with his love and provide to her his plan. JLP recommends silent prayer every morning and night.

Awesome answer, thank you!

@Seven

@Seven Its a really good idea to have actually forgiven her in your heart before you tell her. Instead of expecting the forgiveness conversation to work like some magic spell. Also, I bet you got some anger at your dad for just letting you sit there in that abuse. He had to know.

Sometimes we have anger hidden in our heart. I thought I was good with my dad, until I realized I wasn't. Turns out he was just as forgivable as my mom.

my mom cried and acted like she was doubling over with the pain of it. "I had no idea i was like that" she said. :/ ok. My dad said Thank you

Also, spot on calling her behavior "on the offensive " instead of mistaking it as defensive. She wants you to think its defensive so you will feel like you are attacking her. Straight manipulation.

@Deleted User You can love your man, and even tell him so. You just cant give him love, or provide love to him. No more than I can give love to Christ Jesus, even though I love him. A weak man will depend on that love, he will "need" it from you to fill him. A strong man won't have to depend on it, no more than Christ Jesus depends on my love.

To answer #2 You will know you have your alpha when you love him, but he doesnt lean on it. If he starts whining and seeking your comfort, and tellin you all about his bad day looking for you to make him feel better, you got yourself a BAYTUH MALE

Also, you really shouldnt have too much in common, or else he would be like you, a woman.

@DasBoles Thank you for those answers! In relation to your first answer, can you please clarify your first statement by providing examples?

I can, probably. But I have to board up some windows for this hurricane coming through.

ttyl