Message from @Pat-MA
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i was planning on just talking to her next time we see each other at church
and then asking her on a date once the semester was over and she wouldn't have a good excuse
Thing is if girls want to hang out with you they will make it happen
True, I'm kind of skeptical because she didn't offer an exact alternative time when she postponed at first
she said we can still talk at church and plan something once the semester is over
so i was planning on talking to her at church and asking her for another date once the semester ends
and if that doesn't work out then i'll move on
Oh come on thats ridiculous. Does she think you are some chump who will wait around for a month? She's wrong. You are the prize
She can't find one afternoon/evening? She definitely can
she also lives a half hour drive away from me
Is she shy? Nervous about a date?
and is 18, and doesn't have her own car
Ok so she is young and definitely immature when it comes to dating
she is young
but we talked about guns
and how great the liberal salt after trump's election was
and she's gorgeous
How old are yu?
23 in july
Finals are coming up arent they? I would give her the space, keep texting and doing the church stuff. And once the semester ends, hit her with a, "so where are you taking me on our date now that schools out". joking/playfuly of course. Put the ball in her court.
i was planning on once the semester ends just going up to her at church or texting her and saying "so how about that coffee?"
Ok. She could be a little intimidated by an older guy. Probably not used to getting attention from a guy your age. If she is really into you, I bet you could convince her to hang out with you within 2 weeks
normally i would think pursuing a girl a few years younger than me would be weird but since she initiated by asking her mom about me/inviting me to sit with her at church, i think it's more ok
Nah dude girls love older guys, naturally attracted to them
Just be careful you don't get friendzoned. Texting too much can do that
yeah i've been avoiding texting her
if she initiates i respond
and if she initiates several times in a row i might text her
but i dont' like texting in general
you prevent being friendzoned by "keeping it man to woman". i would text her when you have something to say
if you do not text her much she may perceive that as disinterest
i would sit next to her at church every week
"you prevent being friendzoned by "keeping it man to woman". i would text her when you have something to say" great way to put it @Zyzz .
It's about making your intentions clear
if i get to church after her and she is alone i will sit next to her