Message from @Pat-MA

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2018-04-19 01:43:44 UTC  

i was planning on just talking to her next time we see each other at church

2018-04-19 01:43:56 UTC  

and then asking her on a date once the semester was over and she wouldn't have a good excuse

2018-04-19 01:44:14 UTC  

Thing is if girls want to hang out with you they will make it happen

2018-04-19 01:44:58 UTC  

True, I'm kind of skeptical because she didn't offer an exact alternative time when she postponed at first

2018-04-19 01:45:41 UTC  

she said we can still talk at church and plan something once the semester is over

2018-04-19 01:45:53 UTC  

so i was planning on talking to her at church and asking her for another date once the semester ends

2018-04-19 01:46:02 UTC  

and if that doesn't work out then i'll move on

2018-04-19 01:46:30 UTC  

Oh come on thats ridiculous. Does she think you are some chump who will wait around for a month? She's wrong. You are the prize

2018-04-19 01:46:48 UTC  

She can't find one afternoon/evening? She definitely can

2018-04-19 01:47:02 UTC  


2018-04-19 01:47:08 UTC  


2018-04-19 01:47:30 UTC  

she also lives a half hour drive away from me

2018-04-19 01:47:30 UTC  

Is she shy? Nervous about a date?

2018-04-19 01:47:39 UTC  

and is 18, and doesn't have her own car

2018-04-19 01:47:55 UTC  

Ok so she is young and definitely immature when it comes to dating

2018-04-19 01:48:38 UTC  


2018-04-19 01:48:42 UTC  

she is young

2018-04-19 01:48:47 UTC  

but we talked about guns

2018-04-19 01:48:55 UTC  

and how great the liberal salt after trump's election was

2018-04-19 01:48:58 UTC  

and she's gorgeous

2018-04-19 01:49:20 UTC  

How old are yu?

2018-04-19 01:49:25 UTC  


2018-04-19 01:49:28 UTC  

23 in july

2018-04-19 01:49:41 UTC  

Same lol

2018-04-19 01:50:02 UTC  

Finals are coming up arent they? I would give her the space, keep texting and doing the church stuff. And once the semester ends, hit her with a, "so where are you taking me on our date now that schools out". joking/playfuly of course. Put the ball in her court.

2018-04-19 01:50:31 UTC  

i was planning on once the semester ends just going up to her at church or texting her and saying "so how about that coffee?"

2018-04-19 01:50:34 UTC  

Ok. She could be a little intimidated by an older guy. Probably not used to getting attention from a guy your age. If she is really into you, I bet you could convince her to hang out with you within 2 weeks

2018-04-19 01:51:49 UTC  

normally i would think pursuing a girl a few years younger than me would be weird but since she initiated by asking her mom about me/inviting me to sit with her at church, i think it's more ok

2018-04-19 01:52:17 UTC  

Nah dude girls love older guys, naturally attracted to them

2018-04-19 01:52:31 UTC  


2018-04-19 01:54:00 UTC  

Just be careful you don't get friendzoned. Texting too much can do that

2018-04-19 01:54:50 UTC  

yeah i've been avoiding texting her

2018-04-19 01:54:53 UTC  

if she initiates i respond

2018-04-19 01:55:02 UTC  

and if she initiates several times in a row i might text her

2018-04-19 01:55:07 UTC  

but i dont' like texting in general

2018-04-19 02:01:44 UTC  

you prevent being friendzoned by "keeping it man to woman". i would text her when you have something to say

2018-04-19 02:02:14 UTC  

if you do not text her much she may perceive that as disinterest

2018-04-19 02:02:38 UTC  

i would sit next to her at church every week

2018-04-19 02:03:31 UTC  

"you prevent being friendzoned by "keeping it man to woman". i would text her when you have something to say" great way to put it @Zyzz .

It's about making your intentions clear

2018-04-19 02:03:43 UTC  


2018-04-19 02:04:06 UTC  

if i get to church after her and she is alone i will sit next to her