we were texting a lot

and she seemed into me

she asked me to sit with her during a church service

and though i had to get up and help with the service, i asked her on a date afterward and she said yes

and before then she had been asking about me

her mom came up to ask me my name because her daughter had been asking about me

and she initiated texting me several times

but idk man

wow that's serious

i would just text her how she's doing every once in a while

I would say get right to the point of asking her to hang out again. If she ditches the second date-she's out.

No messing around, no beating around the bush

i was planning on just talking to her next time we see each other at church

and then asking her on a date once the semester was over and she wouldn't have a good excuse

Thing is if girls want to hang out with you they will make it happen

True, I'm kind of skeptical because she didn't offer an exact alternative time when she postponed at first

she said we can still talk at church and plan something once the semester is over

so i was planning on talking to her at church and asking her for another date once the semester ends

and if that doesn't work out then i'll move on

Oh come on thats ridiculous. Does she think you are some chump who will wait around for a month? She's wrong. You are the prize

She can't find one afternoon/evening? She definitely can

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she also lives a half hour drive away from me

Is she shy? Nervous about a date?

and is 18, and doesn't have her own car

Ok so she is young and definitely immature when it comes to dating

yes

she is young

but we talked about guns

and how great the liberal salt after trump's election was

and she's gorgeous

How old are yu?

22

23 in july

Same lol

Finals are coming up arent they? I would give her the space, keep texting and doing the church stuff. And once the semester ends, hit her with a, "so where are you taking me on our date now that schools out". joking/playfuly of course. Put the ball in her court.

i was planning on once the semester ends just going up to her at church or texting her and saying "so how about that coffee?"

Ok. She could be a little intimidated by an older guy. Probably not used to getting attention from a guy your age. If she is really into you, I bet you could convince her to hang out with you within 2 weeks

normally i would think pursuing a girl a few years younger than me would be weird but since she initiated by asking her mom about me/inviting me to sit with her at church, i think it's more ok