Message from @ThisIsChris
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how do i differentiate silly excuse from legitimate excuse?
If she pulls something like ohhh uuhh im busy or have schoolwork or have to walk my dog, thats silly. Legit would be like oh I have to go visit my grandmother in the hospital
I think it's important too to see if she will offer another time if she's busy. If she does then she's probably interested in you
Last thing you could do is say ok, when are you free? If she says not until the end of the semester I would call her out jokingly
someone will thoroughly explain a legitimate excuse.
it also the feeling you get from how she responds.. learn to trust intuition
if she gives an excuse i'll just say "alright let me know when you're free for a date" and wait to see if she ever actually lets me know
@Gaius Mucius Scaevola one thing I would throw in there. even though 18-22/23 isn't unheard of, it really is quite a huge difference
according to the half your age+7 rule she's at my lower limit
but she is really gorgeous and trad
its rare for a girl to ever follow up with someone about when they are free for a date.. it is best to ask "so when are you free?"
if she can't do brunch after church one of these weeks soon should i ask her again once the semester is over?
@Gaius Mucius Scaevola I would play it by ear, meet her at Church, ask how things are going
if she's light on details then move on
she hasn't initiated texting in a while
so i guess i'll just play it by ear
tfw no gf until then
Don't worry man you are wicked young. And as you get older, you will meet more mature girls
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dat fertility window tho
Plenty of time man
@Gaius Mucius Scaevola like @Pat-MA said 18 year olds are really immature and unstable (sorry young guys lol). If I were you I wouldn't bother with a girl younger than 21. Don't worry about fertility window, you have a good while.
feelsbadman
but alright
Yeah man, I read an article about how most girls hit their peak maturity nowadays at age 27
Also, one of the open secrets is this: most girls are trad in some way, it's the natural way
big thing to me is she was born and raised orthodox christian
and orthodox christians are already an intense minority in this country
I agree religion is important. On religion she sounds great, but I think the age thing really is a challenge.
true
i was a fucking retard at 18
i'm still a fucking retard, only slightly less
lol
Yeah I don't want to knock anyone man or woman, i can only imagine what I looked like to other people, but I quickly learned that girls 18-23 are basically pixies
Then around 23 they start to get a little more serious
my personal experience, though I'm sure it's the same the other way around as well
You are definitely right man. Then at 27 they usually take another turn
i was a shithead up until like 2 years ago
I'm a shithead
So i've been texting this girl for a week, then I ask her out on a date and she says she's not looking to date anyone right now. When I asked for her number initially I was perfectly clear I wanted to date her, so why did she text with me for a week acting like she was into me?