Message from @sigruna14
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We were 98% white a few years back and were pretty aggressively targeted for the past few years
I'm also engaged, and the dynamic with my fiance shifted as I became more traditional
@The Lion You might get something out of red pill married forums like on reddit, or the High T marriage blog
and of course there are things you can do yourself, like saving and investing to enable a traditional lifestyle for yourself and her down the road
Another thing, what would you all consider a good career for a traditional man.
@The Lion Generally speaking, women are less logical and more emotional. Showing some graph about economic consequences of both parents working would be much less effective than painting the imagery of the life you imagine for the two of you together, and let her imagination run with it.
I mean it seems broad but to be engaged in the home life and care for your family, and I intend on having many children so I would need a high pay grade.
@The Lion Something that can support a family and that you are good at. There is 0 virtue in being poor.
@The Lion trades are trad in the masculine sense but being something like an engineer or financier gives you a lot of freedom to be with your kids
I wish I chose a career where I could listen to audiobooks all day
imagine how smart I would be after a year of that
@Jacob either really smart or really the kind of guy ppl dont want to talk to at parties
@The Lion You might want to introduce her to Lana from Red Ice TV, she covers politics more than homemaking but she's a good female figure for the movement
@The Lion you could also think about it this way:
We live in unstable times. We want to bring society back to tradition, but we ourselves might not be able to live that way. So if the choice is between living a by-the-book traditionalist life and being financially stable, successful, etc., the latter option may be better
I always like to use women like Ann Coulter and Marion M. Le Pen as examples - should we live in a world where they don’t have to be in politics? of course. Do we? Sadly not
just replace “politics” with whatever field
Isn't "traditionalist" a subjective term? I feel like we are cultural pioneers trying to find OUR traditionalism
that’s a really good point
@godric you can know stuff but not feel the need to constantly tell everyone about it
I used to pine for the days of the 1950s from those old pictures but like...it's never coming back. We will never have that. just pictures and maybe some old footage to reference
Best overall definition.
@sigruna14yeah dude 100%
Sure we can't ever go back, but we have the chance to create an equally good (or better) society.
There's going to be a better society.
One of the things that drew to this was to foster a better future. I had a weird, chaotic upbringing and I crave normalcy
same
not the weird, chaotic part
but the normalcy part
I'd be pretty satisfied if I could just have a normal life and not worry about politics
Haha yeah. If my future kids never have to worry about being red pilled and can just be normal people then we're good
I have two contradictory goals in life
I want to do something great, but at the same time I just want to be left alone and relax
Same.
I don't think anyone gets to be left alone and relax.
I mean unless you just opt out and not participate
I guess it's not really contradictory
because I want to do great stuff, but I eventually want to relax
The 2 years I've been part of this movement have been a wild ride and I don't regret it at all
but I think eventually I'll need some rest
Here's my goal