She texts me first often too so I’m not sure

We have inside jokes

"can you pick up my.shift at work?" "IDK want to go out sometime?"

Lol

Make her go to church with you.

@Freiheit - CA Sure, but when you get a % match from your employer it's free money.

I believe you mean ask if she wants to go of her own free will @Freiheit - CA

Well it's Friday, maybe she just wants to know if there's anything fun going on tonight

Or just don't hang out with her and do something productive for you self and show her you're not interested if she's gonna be weird about it

@AidanGillen if it's more than inflation, fair point.

@Freiheit - CA also you can deduct 401k contributions off your taxes

Cause if she wants to hang she will make it very very apparent

@ThisIsChris make her, after you marry, court her and ask her to church now.

Yea that's good advice @Current Ronin

@ThisIsChris I always believed taxes would only increase, Trump hanged my mind, amirite

Everytime Ive heard a "I don't know maybe.... I don't know what I'm doing yet" I'm like really? Cause i do. Im not wasting my time on someone that's not Interested in me

>I'm dropping an anti-poz banner after work, take pics for me

@DixieBoy76 - KY pass her a note that says "Please check one:
Do you like me?
or do you like *like* me?"

@ThisIsChris Want me to write it in crayon?

@DixieBoy76 - KY of course

@DixieBoy76 - KY Tell 'er, "Imma be at the gym, doin' weighted hip thrusts to failure." 😎

Y’all are brilliant

@ThisIsChris this is the view the Chinese probably had right up until European powers demanded they pay up on their loans and give special concessions to European businesses and citizens.

Haha yeah. "Sorry can't hang out. I'm gonna be saving kittens from trees cause I'm a volunteer fire fighter. Don't wait up"

Saving trees from kittens

And then ride off into the sunset all badass

“Sorry babe, saving Evropa with Patrick and the bros”

There ya go. Problem solved

@DixieBoy76 - KY Just full on take the lead one day and ask her if she wants to hang out at X place and do Y thing after work. Women generally do not like to make decisions like that.

Pick something cute ect.

Hell merge it with one of your inside jokes if you can.

Woah the inside jokes thing is funny af and clever

I have inside jokes with most of the women at my work

@Sam Anderson Aheh, look, we're not trying to give advice that'd ACKshually produce results here...

I was just gonna say something like Sam did. Don’t just ask to hang out. Ask something specific

Gee whillickers I wonder if Twitter is trying to push an agenda here.

Yeah lets go the Neil Strauss TM Star of David route and tell dudes to wear ridiculous clothing and use cheesy pickup lines.

Bahahaha!

Worst PUA book ever, but ofc its a Jew from the 90s so I should have expected such

When she asked if you were doing anything after work you should have told her directly what you wanted to do. "Let's go to the movies." Something like that.