That's just how they are

Yeah.. that's gonna be fun when my son gets to that age lol

Consequences shouldn't be spanking and all these king of shit. Many recent studies have shown that the children who are getting constantly spanked by their parents, not even don't have a good childhood, but also repeat the same mistakes, and if not, they live in terror, inside their own home.

Muh studies

Okay

Limitations is the best kind of consequences.

I don't care what some faggot says, i will follow the traditional way of raising a child, and not some new generation bullshit

The children don't need constant spanking if they teach them consequences of breaking rules at an early age. They will stop breaking rules, and that's the point of punishment.

Leading by example won't work?

@Aztec You don't sound like a father.

Yes, discipline isnt about beating the shit out of a child

You call me a faggot?

I'm taslking about the study

talking*

You're not even mature enough to be a father. I feel sad for your child - if you have any.

How am i immature

Your words prove it.

Wow okay you got me there wow

You should of course also try to reward your child for doing well and show example. Punishment is only one part of parenthood.

^^^

If a child learns he gets punished for doing something then rationally that should encourage him to lie and cover up

If the child is rewarded, he will wanna continue being good, and even improve

It's easy to spot lying

Anyways, i'm gonna dip because Koninos got me with facts and logic as you could see

Then beat his ass for lying

@Fingol Sometimes, it's better for the children to keep doing shit rather than spanking them. I mean, if you do it once, or twice, it doesn't matter. Because the parents are people, they have feelings, and they cannot easily control them. But spanking it constantly is fucking its feelings up, and leads to lack of childhood.

I can say that personally, i was spanked the fuck out of as a child

That's sad.

No

It's called discipline, something you need

Okay, I'm talking with a majohist.

I think what's worse than being punished for doing something wrong is not being congratulated for doing something good

You just called faggot somebody who wrote a fucking study, is that discipline?

Is that what i need?

Is that how I should be, when I become a father?

Get lost.

What you need is 1 year military service to get you into shape

Lying is one of those things I would punish children pretty hard for. The traditional punishment in my country has been to put soap in the kids mouth, which synbolically means to clean your dirty lying mouth, but also feels really shit.

@Commandant Indeed.

You wont be a father lmao

Soap?