every needs to feel like they are entering into someone's life who already has his/her shit nailed down

*everyone

we have to prioritize that we want to build families, we need to have men and women to raise the next generation right to return to our glory days

That's why I tell guys on TRP "focus on your life mission, forget about theory and methods behind chasing women." They love that message. In fact none of this is needed. It's all natural, we just need to unlearn what society and TRP taught us, focus on our mission and future family, and it'll all be sorted

Yes, woman don't want to feel *at first at least* like they are the only reason to live and to be happy of a man

Yo crew. I have to go. Catch you all later. 2 days ago I did not think I'd be in some anti red pill discord XD

@Maria Matthew But then after you date them for a while? Should they always remain just one of many projects, or should they be *the* project?

I don't even want a family so it makes that goal twice as easy for me!

Haha, good having you here @tubby! Talk soon

the project I'd think right?

Haha bye

Cya tubs

Cheers mates

we need families though, I think that's the whole point

the goal is large families so we can make our future better

personally I'd rather have a small circle of friends and family

so just having a gf would probably satisfy that need

but that is jsut me

this is more about the sort of effect on society we have to make

the fertility rate is low, that's why all these people want to have a ton of immigration, to preserve our future, we have to make sure we are the ones having children and making our society better

Things are more prosperous now than ever before. Yet people are far less happy on average. What has changed? The role of the family and local community

prosperous in perhaps a material sense

obviously

god I'm starting to feel guilty for my plans xD

hahaha

@IntAnon Building a strong and beautiful family is the main project of a lot of women. Think about little girls, playing with fake babies, playing "family", dreaming of the Prince Charming. Every woman carries that in her heart but due to society's circumstances, women are pushed to be tougher, to be working women, to have the same aspirations as man. In fact, we can see that women are getting more masculine by the day by their attitude, way of dressing,... And men are becoming more feminine, more in their attitude of course : problems to take a decision, afraid of commitment, less hardworking than the past generations, more worried about their appearance,...

I understand that it would be best to but I really really really really don't want children

Don't feel forced. I think It will just come very naturally

How old are you ?

yeah the media influence is to make women have to feel like they need to have these high roles like CEO and "you can do everything they can", but I think this sort of stuff harms women more than anything

But should I feel guilty if I still don't want that when I'm 40?

we have the gender roles for a reason

how do you know you won't?

You should never feel guilty

haha

Yeah I think it's more of a team effort between husband and wife; what was once the man's projects becomes their projects -- and vice versa. So it's about combining into one unit thats way more powerful than before, rather than fighting over what gets focus

perhaps you have another mission in life, it has to come naturally 😃

@Donut Steel Tendies what do you mean im a huge supporter!

In terms of gender roles I think some men will want to go for feminine things and vice versa and I think that's fine

it's not exactly a natural thing though, it's a byproduct of the media influence and that kind of thing

@-stupidface- I may have misunderstood what your username+avatar meant :p