Message from @Donut Steel Tendies
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Yup, so there's a balance.
Yes it is to woman too.
It's simply avoiding neeedyness
Yup
as a moderately attractive male I have had some women just stare at me in classes without trying to talk to me and I find that creepy and unattractive
every needs to feel like they are entering into someone's life who already has his/her shit nailed down
*everyone
we have to prioritize that we want to build families, we need to have men and women to raise the next generation right to return to our glory days
That's why I tell guys on TRP "focus on your life mission, forget about theory and methods behind chasing women." They love that message. In fact none of this is needed. It's all natural, we just need to unlearn what society and TRP taught us, focus on our mission and future family, and it'll all be sorted
Yes, woman don't want to feel *at first at least* like they are the only reason to live and to be happy of a man
Yo crew. I have to go. Catch you all later. 2 days ago I did not think I'd be in some anti red pill discord XD
@Maria Matthew But then after you date them for a while? Should they always remain just one of many projects, or should they be *the* project?
I don't even want a family so it makes that goal twice as easy for me!
the project I'd think right?
Haha bye
Cya tubs
Cheers mates
we need families though, I think that's the whole point
the goal is large families so we can make our future better
so just having a gf would probably satisfy that need
but that is jsut me
this is more about the sort of effect on society we have to make
the fertility rate is low, that's why all these people want to have a ton of immigration, to preserve our future, we have to make sure we are the ones having children and making our society better
Things are more prosperous now than ever before. Yet people are far less happy on average. What has changed? The role of the family and local community
prosperous in perhaps a material sense
obviously
god I'm starting to feel guilty for my plans xD
hahaha
@IntAnon Building a strong and beautiful family is the main project of a lot of women. Think about little girls, playing with fake babies, playing "family", dreaming of the Prince Charming. Every woman carries that in her heart but due to society's circumstances, women are pushed to be tougher, to be working women, to have the same aspirations as man. In fact, we can see that women are getting more masculine by the day by their attitude, way of dressing,... And men are becoming more feminine, more in their attitude of course : problems to take a decision, afraid of commitment, less hardworking than the past generations, more worried about their appearance,...
I understand that it would be best to but I really really really really don't want children
Don't feel forced. I think It will just come very naturally
How old are you ?
yeah the media influence is to make women have to feel like they need to have these high roles like CEO and "you can do everything they can", but I think this sort of stuff harms women more than anything
But should I feel guilty if I still don't want that when I'm 40?
we have the gender roles for a reason
how do you know you won't?
You should never feel guilty
haha
Yeah I think it's more of a team effort between husband and wife; what was once the man's projects becomes their projects -- and vice versa. So it's about combining into one unit thats way more powerful than before, rather than fighting over what gets focus