Message from @quinnn
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Like straight men who objectify women?
Absolutely, 100%
See that I can respect
It's hatred of a specific toxic character trait, along all walks of life
You don't attempt to excuse anyone
I was under the idea most people hold my position, i suppose not?
It's that when people usually say that
They would encourage such behaviour if it were a straight male friend of theirs
So it's just an extension of one's homophobia, without them being directly homophobic
As for objectification, I think it's more of a matter of maturity and timing. If you see a cute girl / guy and say to a friend "Wow, that person is cute," then whatever, but if you run down the road screaming "OH YEA SO SEXY" then it's just a failure to conduct yourself maturely in public
I will, however, say that I've noticed the trait above is more common in those within the LGBT community as opposed to those without it. I believe it has something to do with the concept of an "in group," etc. I've found it more common for, say, a gay men to have his sexuality be a huge portion of his personality, then a straight man. That's just my personal experience, so you can take it with a grain of salt
I mean I see it more as being gay is more easily noticeable as an outsider because, to you, it's not "normal"
So what may not come off as flaunting to a gay person, may be so to a straight person and vice versa
The same with trans and cis people
I don't mean mannerisms, I mean literal immediate sexual innuendo comments within minutes of interacting, but I understand your point
Once again, just my experience.
Another thing I'm also incredibly hesitant with, since we are on the topic of gender in general, are gender related surgeries
specifically ones involving genitalia. The complication rate is high and complications are debilitating. The risk just seems to outweigh the gain so drastically.
I've done extensive research personally on this specific topic, and seen more mutilated crotches then I ever thought I would. Ulcers, tears, fistulas, infection, required revisions, loss of all sexual function. It's terrible.
Yeah that's an issue of the doctor being shit
However you are right, there are far too many risks
The vast majority are. The most popular, from what I can gather, is from one specific doctor in thailand of all places
Hey the Thai must know their shit
I guess so lol. Seems to be just this one doctor though, everybody else sacrifices a lot
Hormonal therapy is also quite risky, although not as much. Spironolactone, for example, can cause skin necrosis in some cases (although rare) and estrogen drastically increases the risk of blood clots, embolisms, thrombosis, etc
Testosterone can also cause, in severe cases, liver failure or significantly decreased liver function. It's all the wild west of medicine right now, and from an outsider perspective, I can understand why some people would be vehemently against it
A person, willing to risk injury, mutilation, and death, to change themselves in an unchangeable way. It's a complex issue to be certain
lol
Beat that creature up
it's ma'#am
Nah it’s a negro
Lol
transgenders are okay
They can be unreasonable at times though
as can everyone my man
More so from my experience
I don't think we honestly make that generalization though, I mean, I could say mid western moms with three kids in soccer are unreasonable at times.
Terrible that she got attacked like this though
That’s fair