Message from @quinnn

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2019-04-15 05:38:43 UTC  

It's like that dude at your lunch table who always talks about how many girls he bangs, it's annoying and obnoxious

2019-04-15 05:38:48 UTC  

Like straight men who objectify women?

2019-04-15 05:38:48 UTC  

Absolutely, 100%

2019-04-15 05:38:57 UTC  

See that I can respect

2019-04-15 05:39:15 UTC  

It's hatred of a specific toxic character trait, along all walks of life

2019-04-15 05:39:36 UTC  

You don't attempt to excuse anyone

2019-04-15 05:39:58 UTC  

I was under the idea most people hold my position, i suppose not?

2019-04-15 05:40:13 UTC  

It's that when people usually say that

2019-04-15 05:40:24 UTC  

They would encourage such behaviour if it were a straight male friend of theirs

2019-04-15 05:40:44 UTC  

So it's just an extension of one's homophobia, without them being directly homophobic

2019-04-15 05:42:15 UTC  

As for objectification, I think it's more of a matter of maturity and timing. If you see a cute girl / guy and say to a friend "Wow, that person is cute," then whatever, but if you run down the road screaming "OH YEA SO SEXY" then it's just a failure to conduct yourself maturely in public

2019-04-15 05:44:57 UTC  

I will, however, say that I've noticed the trait above is more common in those within the LGBT community as opposed to those without it. I believe it has something to do with the concept of an "in group," etc. I've found it more common for, say, a gay men to have his sexuality be a huge portion of his personality, then a straight man. That's just my personal experience, so you can take it with a grain of salt

2019-04-15 05:46:19 UTC  

I mean I see it more as being gay is more easily noticeable as an outsider because, to you, it's not "normal"

2019-04-15 05:46:40 UTC  

So what may not come off as flaunting to a gay person, may be so to a straight person and vice versa

2019-04-15 05:46:51 UTC  

The same with trans and cis people

2019-04-15 05:47:15 UTC  

I don't mean mannerisms, I mean literal immediate sexual innuendo comments within minutes of interacting, but I understand your point

2019-04-15 05:47:34 UTC  

Once again, just my experience.

2019-04-15 05:48:01 UTC  

Another thing I'm also incredibly hesitant with, since we are on the topic of gender in general, are gender related surgeries

2019-04-15 05:48:33 UTC  

specifically ones involving genitalia. The complication rate is high and complications are debilitating. The risk just seems to outweigh the gain so drastically.

2019-04-15 05:49:39 UTC  

I've done extensive research personally on this specific topic, and seen more mutilated crotches then I ever thought I would. Ulcers, tears, fistulas, infection, required revisions, loss of all sexual function. It's terrible.

2019-04-15 05:49:55 UTC  

Yeah that's an issue of the doctor being shit

2019-04-15 05:50:07 UTC  

There are surgeries which do go extremely well

2019-04-15 05:50:21 UTC  

However you are right, there are far too many risks

2019-04-15 05:50:22 UTC  

The vast majority are. The most popular, from what I can gather, is from one specific doctor in thailand of all places

2019-04-15 05:50:41 UTC  

Hey the Thai must know their shit

2019-04-15 05:51:07 UTC  

I guess so lol. Seems to be just this one doctor though, everybody else sacrifices a lot

2019-04-15 05:53:31 UTC  

Hormonal therapy is also quite risky, although not as much. Spironolactone, for example, can cause skin necrosis in some cases (although rare) and estrogen drastically increases the risk of blood clots, embolisms, thrombosis, etc

2019-04-15 05:55:27 UTC  

Testosterone can also cause, in severe cases, liver failure or significantly decreased liver function. It's all the wild west of medicine right now, and from an outsider perspective, I can understand why some people would be vehemently against it

2019-04-15 05:56:42 UTC  

A person, willing to risk injury, mutilation, and death, to change themselves in an unchangeable way. It's a complex issue to be certain

2019-04-15 19:57:01 UTC  

lol

2019-04-15 19:57:03 UTC  

Beat that creature up

2019-04-15 19:57:05 UTC  

it's ma'#am

2019-04-15 20:00:21 UTC  

Nah it’s a negro

2019-04-15 20:00:39 UTC  

Lol

2019-04-15 20:19:01 UTC  

transgenders are okay

2019-04-15 20:21:48 UTC  

They can be unreasonable at times though

2019-04-15 20:21:55 UTC  

as can everyone my man

2019-04-15 20:22:11 UTC  

More so from my experience

2019-04-15 20:22:59 UTC  

I don't think we honestly make that generalization though, I mean, I could say mid western moms with three kids in soccer are unreasonable at times.

2019-04-15 20:23:04 UTC  

Terrible that she got attacked like this though