Message from @thomas the choo choo tree

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2019-05-07 11:53:07 UTC  

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2019-05-07 11:53:18 UTC  

physical in this scenario

2019-05-07 11:53:37 UTC  

then how is there no proof

2019-05-07 11:53:43 UTC  

wouldnt there be bruises

2019-05-07 11:53:51 UTC  

he can keep her in until she gets better

2019-05-07 11:53:59 UTC  

he can lie

2019-05-07 11:54:19 UTC  

well you got me there

2019-05-07 11:54:29 UTC  

unless she scratched him and there's his dna on her there's no proof he inflicted those wounds

2019-05-07 11:54:34 UTC  

and what she said

2019-05-07 11:55:01 UTC  

so in that case, what do you think would be the right thing to do

2019-05-07 11:55:13 UTC  

so mean, giving hard choices

2019-05-07 11:55:30 UTC  

what do you mean right thing to do? we kinda changed topics slightly

2019-05-07 11:55:43 UTC  

as in

2019-05-07 11:55:49 UTC  

keep the baby, adoption, abort

2019-05-07 11:56:06 UTC  

well if the father wants the baby he can force her to keep it regardless if abortion is legal or not

2019-05-07 11:56:43 UTC  

so you think a father has the same say as the mother has on whether she should keep the baby?

2019-05-07 11:56:43 UTC  

GG @ashnaa, you just advanced to level 4!

2019-05-07 11:56:59 UTC  

well he could threaten her

2019-05-07 11:57:16 UTC  

do you think thats right?

2019-05-07 11:57:36 UTC  

^

2019-05-07 11:57:40 UTC  

threatening her into keeping the baby?

2019-05-07 11:57:44 UTC  

no of course not

2019-05-07 11:57:46 UTC  

guess what that is: he's FORCING HER to KEEP the baby. that's no different from what would happen if abortion was outlawed.

2019-05-07 11:57:58 UTC  

then if its wrong why would he do it

2019-05-07 11:58:02 UTC  

well i mean it is different in terms of safety

2019-05-07 11:58:08 UTC  

but like

2019-05-07 11:58:21 UTC  

well if he is forcing her to keep the child adoption and giving the child to a relative no longer becomes an option either

2019-05-07 11:58:37 UTC  

with abortion outlawed Adoption is still an option

2019-05-07 11:58:46 UTC  

do you really think an abuser would want to raise a child

2019-05-07 11:58:51 UTC  

adoption system is messed up tho

2019-05-07 11:59:00 UTC  

oh what the father is still abusive?

2019-05-07 11:59:04 UTC  

i thought it was like

2019-05-07 11:59:06 UTC  

as i said previously the adoption system needs reworking

2019-05-07 11:59:07 UTC  

and if he wants to, would he be right for the kid

2019-05-07 11:59:43 UTC  

i dont believe an abuser is right for anyone but if he doesnt abuve the child

2019-05-07 11:59:44 UTC  

but if it's outlawed, then you're still *forcing* the mom to give her child to a messed up system

2019-05-07 11:59:47 UTC  

abuse*

2019-05-07 12:00:09 UTC  

i have a question

2019-05-07 12:00:15 UTC  

your not forcing her to give her child to a messed up system you could always ask a family member to take the child

2019-05-07 12:00:21 UTC  

and what is your question