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if you have no proof then reporting doesnt help
yeah the police system is also quite messed up
reporting and abusive relationship can get wore
worse*
mental or physical abuse?
physical in this scenario
then how is there no proof
wouldnt there be bruises
he can keep her in until she gets better
he can lie
well you got me there
unless she scratched him and there's his dna on her there's no proof he inflicted those wounds
and what she said
so in that case, what do you think would be the right thing to do
so mean, giving hard choices
what do you mean right thing to do? we kinda changed topics slightly
as in
keep the baby, adoption, abort
well if the father wants the baby he can force her to keep it regardless if abortion is legal or not
so you think a father has the same say as the mother has on whether she should keep the baby?
well he could threaten her
do you think thats right?
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threatening her into keeping the baby?
no of course not
guess what that is: he's FORCING HER to KEEP the baby. that's no different from what would happen if abortion was outlawed.
then if its wrong why would he do it
well i mean it is different in terms of safety
but like
well if he is forcing her to keep the child adoption and giving the child to a relative no longer becomes an option either
with abortion outlawed Adoption is still an option
do you really think an abuser would want to raise a child
adoption system is messed up tho
oh what the father is still abusive?
i thought it was like
as i said previously the adoption system needs reworking
and if he wants to, would he be right for the kid
i dont believe an abuser is right for anyone but if he doesnt abuve the child