The example of women typically gaining custody of the children in divorces is true, but that doesn't mean I believe the world is "gynocentric" (I was talking about the U.S.) nor does it mean I am an MRA. The situation that you described yourself as being in, that being a victim of molestation and being afraid to come out to friends and family, is by no means proof of there being a "patriarchal superstructure" and is anecdotal evidence, as girls can endure the exact same thing *and* there are people who weren't as afraid to talk about it, as well as there being families that vary in terms of support (I am sympathetic however). And this isn't saying that I think the U.S. is favoring women exactly as opposed to equality, but there are factors here that go against the whole "patriarchy" narrative that need to be addressed more often. Not to mention that "toxic masculine culture" is I'll defined in and of itself.
