Message from @Pendell

Discord ID: 513470604725452812


2018-11-17 21:45:17 UTC  

Most of them "identify" as trans for attention.

2018-11-17 21:45:22 UTC  

Disgusting.

2018-11-17 21:45:35 UTC  

And then they get surgery and fuck themselves up and get real dysphoria.

2018-11-17 21:45:39 UTC  

Gender expression is not gender or sex

2018-11-17 21:45:41 UTC  

I'm genuinely disgusted by that.

2018-11-17 21:46:15 UTC  

I subscribe to the "standards of care" model which requires psych evaluation before hormone or surgical changes

2018-11-17 21:46:31 UTC  

Also, I disagree with the notion that gender is a social construct. The hormones of our sex affect our gender identities most of the time.

2018-11-17 21:46:38 UTC  

@DrYuriMom absolutely.

2018-11-17 21:47:17 UTC  

You should be evaluated thoroughly to make sure you aren't otherwise mentally ill or dealing with some sort of severe trauma before being allowed on that stuff.

2018-11-17 21:47:18 UTC  

I had psych evaluations and letters before I started hormones and had my surgery. One of my letters was from the head of psychiatry at the site I practiced at the time. It really was nice since at first he was not thrilled about my change.

2018-11-17 21:47:35 UTC  

Agreed.

2018-11-17 21:47:46 UTC  

Agreed with who?

2018-11-17 21:47:53 UTC  

Me

2018-11-17 21:47:57 UTC  

Pendell

2018-11-17 21:47:57 UTC  

Got it.

2018-11-17 21:48:06 UTC  

Still, am I wrong?

2018-11-17 21:48:07 UTC  

Also I agree with you

2018-11-17 21:48:12 UTC  

Gender is inherent

2018-11-17 21:48:20 UTC  

Not a social construct

2018-11-17 21:48:40 UTC  

If gender was a social construct, and men have privilege, then everyone should identify as male.

2018-11-17 21:48:51 UTC  

XD

2018-11-17 21:49:10 UTC  

We've seen male infants who have trauma and get brought up as girls get all messed up.

2018-11-17 21:49:16 UTC  

Yeah

2018-11-17 21:49:25 UTC  

John Money's experiments.

2018-11-17 21:49:32 UTC  

Did not
... work out.

2018-11-17 21:49:36 UTC  

And despite my penis at birth, I was terrible at being a guy.

2018-11-17 21:49:47 UTC  

?

2018-11-17 21:49:55 UTC  

How so

2018-11-17 21:49:59 UTC  

I did the world a favor by transitioning. Really, I did.

2018-11-17 21:50:06 UTC  

If you don't mind me asking

2018-11-17 21:50:13 UTC  

I was just miserable and never could figure out the social queues.

2018-11-17 21:50:49 UTC  

For example, I had two wonderful guy friends growing up and they'd be shoplifting Penthouse and I'd just be rolling my eyes

2018-11-17 21:51:05 UTC  

Wow lmao

2018-11-17 21:51:37 UTC  

It would have been a lot more logical given how I behaved if I'd been the token chick of the group. They say that now.

2018-11-17 21:51:48 UTC  

Well, I'm going to get going. Nice talking to you guys. Have a nice day.

2018-11-17 21:51:55 UTC  

I mean I suck at hanging out with guys too lol

2018-11-17 21:52:07 UTC  

I like being in mixed groups.

2018-11-17 21:52:09 UTC  

You too Illyrian

2018-11-17 21:52:17 UTC  

Have fun!

2018-11-17 21:52:30 UTC  

For my whole life I've always generally socialized much better with girls than guys.

2018-11-17 21:53:19 UTC  

My wife makes a much better guy than I do, or would but she's okay with being a woman