In regard to lust: Lust is reducing your neighbor to its flesh. You objectify him/her in the sense that all you see in your neighbor is a tool, which is evil. In the same way you wouldn't like people to reduce you to your body fat/nose shape/body flaws, in the same way you should not reduce people to their reproductive organ.
All lust is evil, even if it is in marriage. Because when you lust, all you see is flesh and your crave is similar to gluttony, which is you becoming a beast.
Lust hates Love. Love hates Lust.
Just my 2 cents.

@Szayel's Pooppion romantic love leads to reproduction.

As you get closer to each other, your body gets in heats and everything comes natural as an experience of love and great intimacy.

Morally is done only in marriage.

Lust is seeking the flesh. Love is seeking the mind, heart, spirit.

@salazam she is right, man.

Lust is reducing the human to body parts and craving them to receive pleasures of the flesh. It is a very egocentric affection. You can compare it with gluttony. For example, looking at a dog and craving its legs, hips, etc imagining how good they will taste if you could just have them and cook them right.

Romantic Love is of the heart, mind, spirit. It is a supernatural, so to say, experience. And sex comes naturally as a form of greater union, (morally only in the sanctity and protection of marriage).

Love is of two kinds: Platonic love (how you love your mom, dad, dog, God, friends, sisters) and Romantic love (how you love your husband/wife, has dating, kissing, holding hands,etc)

And in regard of women, the natural order is about co-existing in balance. Is not about seeing women as being less than men. Women are a blessing. Don't look down on them. Lead, but lead with righteousness and love.

Isn't that what Jesse always says? The man must love his wife as Jesus loves His church. And a man must be righteous.

@salazam I want to remind you something. Before thinking about being the head of the woman, remember that Jesus must be your head (leader).

Don't worry about the speck of dust from your neighbor's eye (the woman being this and that) when you have a javelin in your eye (you do not obey God). That is arrogance.

And Jesus has said! And listen to His words! Anyone who looks at a woman lustfully, committed adultery in his heart.

If you are going to be evil, you are unworthy to be the head of ANY woman.

Bro, listen to God's words.

How are you going to be an Alpha if satan is your daddy? Where will you lead? You'll lead to destruction, obviously.

In this case, a "beta" who is obeying God is greater than you who is following your daddy, satan.

Bro, I tell you these out of love.

You're a great guy, but without God, you're blind.

Platonic, obviously.

Nope.

Bro, do you agree that God needs to be your father?

Yes or no?

God or satan? Purity (natural design, which is righteousness) or Perversion (rebellion against natural design)?

If you are in rebellion to God, you are unworthy to lead. Even Lucifer was kicked out of Heaven when he rebelled no matter how beautiful and strong and talented he was.

Bro, I do not try to intimidate you or humiliate you.

And is nothing wrong with warning a bro out of love. Think about it.

If you overcome your flaws, you will grow beautiful, stronger and reach your potential.

Me giving you a hand, out of brotherly love, is pushing you UP, not down.

Don't be mad on me now, please.

This is not your final version. Accept that you need to get right with God, get right with God and so you will overcome your current fallen state, becoming a wonderful person.

How to get right with God? Forgive everyone who wronged you. Write down your sins or at least search your heart for the wrongs you did to others, and ask Jesus to forgive your sins. Then ask Jesus to adopt you, to come into your heart and become your Lord (leader) and Savior and to send you the Holy Spirit. You need to be 100% sincere. Otherwise you're just saying poems.

Then start reading the New Testament and follow Jesus Christ's teachings. And all will be well. There will be beautiful changes in your life, you will overcome many things and have many battles (spiritual) with your old nature and temptation. You will win and your life will get better. Your protection is: humility and obedience to God.

(If you weren't baptised, get baptised).

No.... Baptism is removal of the original curse. Is very important.

You need to be baptised twice. First, with water. Second, with fire (receive the Holy Spirit).

@salazam you have a lot of anger in you, brother 😦 Get right with God. He loves you.

Love is of the mind, aka: you use your mind to see people from a perspective that enables love for them. For example you look at humans through the perspective of the people who love them, meditating about it. You ignore their flaws and focus on their qualities, seeking using your mind, their inner beauty.

You can also meditate on the love that individual has for others, which will make it easier for you to love that person.

Love is of the heart, aka: You have an open heart, and/or that individual is in your heart.

Love is of the spirit: His/her presence is with you.

This is just my 2 cents and a very shallow description. The more you think about it, the more you will understand.

Think about it. What do lovers usually say? Something along these lines: you're in my heart, I can't stop thinking of you, I wish you were near me, I am with you, etc.

And what people that are in lust say? (with other words): You are so HOT, I want you to be mine, etc (focus on the lower part of the body, which is a "love" that is dead because it has no substance).

@salazam read Proverbs 12. Don't hate correction. And love discipline. So you will receive good knowledge.

@salazam what do you think "Life is bigger than me, but God is bigger than life" means?

And which is this message, salazam, and why?

How do you love everybody?

People who say "I love everybody" usually love nobody.

They confuse love with peace.

Now, no.

No

I forgave

No...

Love is many things, including pain.

Love is self-sacrifice, joy, pain, hope, kindness. mercy, forgiveness...

If you love, you will experience pain at some point.

E.g. when your loved one suffers.

Or when your loved one abandons you, or makes bad choices, etc.

No...

Love has pain, and is okay.

If I love that person, yes.

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My father is God

My earthly father and mother I left behind

@salazam I am not God mate.

Follow God not me.

But follow God!

Read your Bible (New Testament) and obey. You are precious to God. And we both have lots to learn.

Bro, why are you so angry?

Your anger tempts other people to anger 😦

Liar

You do not even know what love is

Love humbles you.

As long as you have the "me vs the world" mindset you won't be able to learn much via correction. In humility, you can learn a lot more.

Salazam, how old are you?

Don't get fat. It ain't fun.

You will need need new clothes, you will get tired easy, you will get irritations between your legs if you move a lot, and once you get fat is hard to lose weight.

Better give to poor people and do selfless, altruistic acts.

@Litinit I think you're insecure. Also you shouldn't have sex before marriage, nor date online.

Just get right with Jesus. Let Him do the changes He thinks are necessary in you, and you will meet your wife at the right time.

@J_G_ please don't ban him.

He just seeks love and to be a part of the group, in his own way.

Let him be, I think with proper guidance he will become a mighty warrior of righteousness.

I find myself screaming: ***Jesus, you're KILLING ME!!!*** Yes, He kills the **OLD** me, surgically removing sin, and healing my wounds.

@salazam you are so precious to Jesus. Come to Him. He is your real father. He created you (the soul) in Heaven.

Bro, I love you like I would love a lil bro and I see great potential in you.

I can see your suffering, and I understand your pain and loneliness and darkness.

You are but a flower that spend too much time in the night and forgot the warmth of the sun.

Your potential is huge.

Please, don't harden your heart to me, brother.

I want your good, not to harm you.

Before judging others, we should fix ourselves.

Condemning people in our heart is "playing God".

We should warn, out of love or out of righteousness.

But NEVER condemn.

Judgement (condemning) is hatred.

Bro I don't judge you

I love you and I want to give you a hand.