wife

family time

daddy

mommy

pass down the values

everything you learned

make a great future

not.....make porn with random women every weekend because you figured out what weights are

we definitely need more good mothers in this day and age

for this nation to continue to exist, we have to have tons of children, definitely at least three, ideally 2 figures if you can afford to

after our 1st my wife is 😮

and I was hands on daddy

she got to sleep

i did dad duty

i pulled the 10pum to 4am shift

only if by accident now.

My twin brother is caught up in this RP stuff, and it is ruining his life. He lost his girlfriend, alienated our parents, lost most of his friends, and also lost his job...I haven't given up trying to reach him, but he won't take anything I say seriously because I have a vagina.

I want to help, if I can, and maybe figure out a way to help my brother.

I really want him to bond with my son, his nephew, who is 7 months old, but I'm also afraid of what he says when the baby gets old enough to understand.

Hey there @Rarespawn | (213) , thanks for joining. I'm very sorry to hear about your brother. Does he ever post on TRP? We can definitely start interacting with him on the sub, where his mind is the most open, and that would be the most effective way to start

@IntAnon I'll try to find out his username, I'm pretty sure he has a separate name for TRP stuff...and I don't know what it is. I'm not sure how much he interacts on TRP, in the beginning he sent me a lot of YouTube videos from an MGTOW channel called Sandman. But lately he's been doing a lot of self improvement, which I initially thought was good, but now I think it means he's possibly moved into RP.

I am a scientist, and I have access to most scientific journals. If you guys here statistics or studies that don't sound quite right, let me know. I am happy to look into it and see what these studies are really saying. I've found TRP loves cherry picked data that supports it's claims.

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Hello, anyone here?

hi

What are you all talking about?

copy and paste from the server owner

Here's an introduction for all new members. Young men, those who will carry forth the torch of liberty, are being led astray. There are traps of degeneracy and mediocrity at every level. The most able of young men are being caught in /r/TheRedPill on Reddit. I know because I have been there. /r/TheRedPill has just under 300k subscribers, with millions more reading their content without an account.

The Red Pill works, but it also poisons. We need to teach young men that while they should be alpha, they should also be smart and look to their ancestors. I have been working to guide these young men, to inspire them to carry on the torch of liberty and Western Civilization, and to focus on their grand mission, work, future wife and family.

Though I am just one man I have been making a lot of progress and the audience is very receptive to the message. I need some help, however, in strategy, organization, and execution.

The current tasks at hand are recruitment and responding to new posts on /r/AskTRP, a subreddit where young men ask questions for "red pill experts" to answer. As @-stupidface- put it, it's blind leading the blind.

I am responding to about 10 of these posts a day. Usually there are ~60. With more people onboard, we can have a presence in each and every post, and then move onto more complex projects.

I'm working on organizing and recruiting, so I'll be in touch with more updates. Thank you all, and God bless.

I'm talking more along the lines of what's being discussed right now

this place is pretty fresh

like 1 day fresh

so not much

Yeah, I can tell

Can I start by asking a more practical question?

by all means

At what point does "Having standards" stop and "Being shallow" begins?

When it comes to a man being the one who is deciding

it begins when you want to start forming a real relationship with a person.

both have to decide

but you can choose to identify and avoid

It's just that there is someone interested in me but I'm not interested in that person and I find her unattractive to me but I also feel guilty for that

you shouldn't

if its not for you its not for you

its not a 1 way street

I am not a picky person at all but I am even less than average attracted to people who are overweight

Anyway I have a lecture in a few mins, I can chat some more in two hours

it sounds like you are selling yourself short

you are less then avg so just take whatever comes your way

thats no path for success

so get out of that mindet

Welp, lecture's not happening so I'm back

can you explain what you mean by "you are less than avg so jsut take whatever comes your way"

it just sounds like the mindset you are in based on what you said

Well, on one hand, it is true that I'm not in the best mental condition recently and my self esteem is really damn low, maybe even somewhat unreasonably so.

but I also believe that there is more to people than looks, though I think being overweight is a consequence of bad descisions and maybe it's okay to find it undesirable

i wouldn't worry about external relationships until you feel better about yourself

He wasn't saying he was less than average. He was saying he is 'even less than average attracted to people who are overweight.

You aren't obligated to like someone back just because they like you. But I would be straightforward with her and say you only see her as a friend.

Also, I think it helps be realistic about yourself when setting your standards, and decide what is most important to you.

Like for me, a sense of humor and smarts was most important, Everything else was flexible to a certain degree.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts

Been having these problems since at least 5 years ago and I don't even know what to do. Tried everything, nothing worked

Self confidence and thinking positively are great equalizers, they affect how you present yourself to the world. What is something you think is good about yourself?

I have above average self consciousness so I'm less likely to do something cringy I guess

Just don't get too far into your own head with it. It took me a long time to learn that it doesn't matter what you do/don't do, you'll never get everyone to like you. Your best bet is to worry about yourself and what you like, and not worry about other people so much, the ones who like you for you will stick around.

I used to have hobbies but I just don't seem to care about them much anymore

I need to find something new to do

Hobbies are important. They can be frustrating because sometimes they feel like another commitment you are having trouble keeping up with, but you just gotta take it at your own pace.

Well, I've always been into cars. Maybe it's time to get serious about that

Cars are cool, plus it'll help save you money if you can do stuff yourself.

I've done some rust repair

done a shite job but I've learned a lot

I replaced the alternator on my Saturn, it took like a week, but it saved us a lot of money. I love my Saturn, not very much on it breaks, and the stuff that does is easy to fix.

Same with my MX5 though I'm selling it to get some money for a real project car

My dad was a Porsche mechanic when he was younger, now he buys them cheap and broken and fixes em all up and sells em.

normally it would do but it has too much rust so I don't want to invest into it

that's pretty cool

Sometimes I help him out, they have such expensive parts though.

So what are your other interests?

Obviously, video games

but I'd like to reduce that

I aalso do some basic 3D modelling

I like video games too, they can become very time consuming. I've played a lot less since my little dude was born. I still enjoy watching twitch though.

yeah

So 3d modelling like on a computer? That sounds awesome.

I mostly do low to med poly car models

made like 4 of them since I'm not that quick. All made for VRChat

That's pretty cool though. I assemble and paint minis, the little DnD models, I find it pretty peaceful.

I always wanted to try DnD but I have no friends xD

It's hard to get enough people together regularly to keep a game going. We've managed a few glorious summers, but It would always be nice to do more.

Maybe one day I'll get enough people online together to try it since it sounds fun

They do have some cool online programs for it nowadays..

Is it true that most people here are ex-TRP?

I'm not TRP, my brother is currently, though. The other guys seem pretty legit in being ex-TRP.

I was this close to going full TRP

luckily I found out that it's fundamentally flawed in its core before it was too late

It offers up a lot of principles that draw guys in. It also preys on guys who are vulnerable just from failed relationships or being socially awkward.