They abused my body, but they didn't beat me.

So many people think about revenge...

Instead of forgiving and forgetting.

I'm sorry, Dusty

It would be awesome to lock up false accusers and rapists in the same cells.

I forgave her.

😔 sorry to hear @DrYuriMom

Good for you

I am not holding it against her.

Then the false accusers can actually experience what they accused people of.

And I won't destroy her life by telling the authorities.

I will just move on and live my life.

The problem is being certain false accusers are actually false

I'd want to be sure about it before I did anything to them

Yes, and it's also a problem knowing which ones are real.

Exactly

You can't lower due process because you didn't go to the police and ER right away.

Like i said, I'm torn on this topic like few others

If rape really was that important, parents would teach that to kids.

I don't consider myself a sexual abuse victim, being molested....

Also, I am not buying the shit about the rape epidemic. If rape was really as common as 1 in 4, nobody would dress the way they are dressing on campus.

I was so screwed up at the time I couldn't pick anyone out of a line up

^_^

I came to despise people who use their victimization as a way to have power.

I teach my kids about rape

If I was a girl in the Congo, I would do my best to do anything I have to do to stay safe. That is not just a trope or a rape myth.

My daughter how to avoid it. My son to respect women.

Also id tell more women to arm themselves

That is what you suppose to do.

Teach them how to avoid it.

And not just that weak ass peper spray

The problem with arming is that a gun can be used against you.

A lot of victims of sexual assault tend to do sexual assault themselves.

So if you think about it, it is people who didn't get the proper treatment.

I was taught just how strong a man can be in late June, 1989

Yes, by that standard my ex is a rapist.

Or didn't have a healthy train of thoughts.

I told her I didn't want to have sex if she fucks other people. I think that's stealth rape.

Abused become the abusers

Walk in groups, dont go,alone. Be armed to,be there for someone else, and expect another to be there for you

i agree