I forgive and forget.

I am amazed her friends have still not caught on to this shit.

I'm not a victim, though

It been so long ago, why should I destroy her life.

She really didn't hurt me.

I'm better than that

She has made a total of 6 or so rape allegations.

She just touch me in inappropriate places.... that is it.

I am not saying it is right... just I don't hold it against her.

They wanted to humiliate me.

I think we should treat rapists and false rape accusers roughly the same.

They abused my body, but they didn't beat me.

So many people think about revenge...

Instead of forgiving and forgetting.

I'm sorry, Dusty

It would be awesome to lock up false accusers and rapists in the same cells.

I forgave her.

😔 sorry to hear @DrYuriMom

Good for you

I am not holding it against her.

Then the false accusers can actually experience what they accused people of.

And I won't destroy her life by telling the authorities.

I will just move on and live my life.

The problem is being certain false accusers are actually false

I'd want to be sure about it before I did anything to them

Yes, and it's also a problem knowing which ones are real.

Exactly

You can't lower due process because you didn't go to the police and ER right away.

Like i said, I'm torn on this topic like few others

If rape really was that important, parents would teach that to kids.

I don't consider myself a sexual abuse victim, being molested....

Also, I am not buying the shit about the rape epidemic. If rape was really as common as 1 in 4, nobody would dress the way they are dressing on campus.

I was so screwed up at the time I couldn't pick anyone out of a line up

^_^

I came to despise people who use their victimization as a way to have power.

I teach my kids about rape

If I was a girl in the Congo, I would do my best to do anything I have to do to stay safe. That is not just a trope or a rape myth.

My daughter how to avoid it. My son to respect women.

Also id tell more women to arm themselves

That is what you suppose to do.

Teach them how to avoid it.