Message from @That Guy [ なに!?! ]
Discord ID: 539134867586416643
Maybe it would be better to focus on preventing divorce altogether, eh?
wouldn't surprise me....
@That Guy [ なに!?! ] nah its not. A woman can use birth control (men dont have reliable birth control other than vasectomies), she can use the morning after pill, she can abort, she can give the child up for adoption and she can even anonymously give it to a save haven
maybe it would be better to not pay people to be poor and make babies?
which were established cause before we had save havens mothers just threw their babies in the dumpster
But at the same time they both engaged in sex
Knee slapper
you take that risk
@That Guy [ なに!?! ] and? Thats still her choice
It is his as well
no
he contributed nothing to that choice
He didn't chose to have sex?
He was raped?
Rip
he may or may not have chosen to have sex
but
if he did
thats not consent to being a father
fucks sake
if the postal service breaks something, they have to replace that. NOT pay you your lost earnings
I don't want my tax dollars going to welfare sluts, either.
^
This book is intense holy shit
@That Guy [ なに!?! ] if the postal service breaks something, they have to replace that. NOT pay you your lost earnings
You are responsible for direct damages so the most a dad could be responsible for is paying half the abortion
yikes
@Redneo If one does not agree with abortion, then that's not fair.
if she doesnt agree with abortion thats her choice
Or if he doesn't
Men can be against abortion as well, despite not wanting a kid
thats possible, yeah. As it stands though thats not a choice he can make
Agreed.
I just feel like this conversation is truly multifaceted (and I hate saying this because it's usually just used as an excuse)
But there's so much to take into consideration in something like that
like what?
Religion, personal beliefs, their own upbringing
I mean, what's complicated?
Like there is a lot that factors into a persons decision making.
Considering how fucked the adoption process is in the US though, it seems almost more humane to abort it instead of putting it up for adoption. Odds are the kid will end up in the foster system.
Sure, mostly stupidity