Message from @Redneo
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Wow, never knew that lol
its not fair to compare single moms to single dads
because the sample size is so much bigger for moms than dads
and the dads will only get custody in extreme circumstances
When your head hurts, because you don't understand something do you ever stop to question whether it's stupid or brilliant?
where they HAVE to be well off
a deadbeat dad will not get custody over a deadbeat mother
thats not how the court works
Id just be fine if deadbeat mothers would be stopped from leeching the wallets of unwilling fathers
its a choice to be a single mother
day of the rope when
I don't know if it's a choice if the father leaves.
I get you could put them up for adoption
Or if the dad dies for some reason
@That Guy [ なに!?! ] it is if he didnt agree to be a father. thats on her
I actually do agree that a man shouldn't have his money stolen for kids he doesn't have custody of.
It's on them both, I would say. @Redneo
Wasn't there a case recently of a teacher that had a kid with a student and the student went to jail for not paying child support?
Maybe it would be better to focus on preventing divorce altogether, eh?
wouldn't surprise me....
@That Guy [ なに!?! ] nah its not. A woman can use birth control (men dont have reliable birth control other than vasectomies), she can use the morning after pill, she can abort, she can give the child up for adoption and she can even anonymously give it to a save haven
maybe it would be better to not pay people to be poor and make babies?
which were established cause before we had save havens mothers just threw their babies in the dumpster
But at the same time they both engaged in sex
Knee slapper
you take that risk
@That Guy [ なに!?! ] and? Thats still her choice
It is his as well
no
he contributed nothing to that choice
He didn't chose to have sex?
He was raped?
Rip
he may or may not have chosen to have sex
but
if he did
thats not consent to being a father
fucks sake
If you chose to engage in sex then you should acknowledge the risks. IMO
if the postal service breaks something, they have to replace that. NOT pay you your lost earnings
I don't want my tax dollars going to welfare sluts, either.