White people and their *shakes Boggle* civilization

You ready for a hot race war?

my dad was a piece of shit tho

not sure if its better to have an abusive father or no father

single dads do better than married dads and single mothers do worse than married mothers...

Comparison of Parenting and Children's Behavior in Single-Mother, Single-Father, and Intact Families
Journal of Divorce & Remarriage
Volume 29, 1998 - Issue 3-4 Pages 23-54

that is because most single mothers are black and the only time a father will get custody is if he is VERY VERY VERY well off

There's a journal for that

Wow, never knew that lol

its not fair to compare single moms to single dads

because the sample size is so much bigger for moms than dads

and the dads will only get custody in extreme circumstances

When your head hurts, because you don't understand something do you ever stop to question whether it's stupid or brilliant?

where they HAVE to be well off

a deadbeat dad will not get custody over a deadbeat mother

thats not how the court works

Id just be fine if deadbeat mothers would be stopped from leeching the wallets of unwilling fathers

its a choice to be a single mother

day of the rope when

I don't know if it's a choice if the father leaves.

I get you could put them up for adoption

Or if the dad dies for some reason

@That Guy [ なに!?! ] it is if he didnt agree to be a father. thats on her

I actually do agree that a man shouldn't have his money stolen for kids he doesn't have custody of.

It's on them both, I would say. @Redneo

Wasn't there a case recently of a teacher that had a kid with a student and the student went to jail for not paying child support?

Maybe it would be better to focus on preventing divorce altogether, eh?

wouldn't surprise me....

@That Guy [ なに!?! ] nah its not. A woman can use birth control (men dont have reliable birth control other than vasectomies), she can use the morning after pill, she can abort, she can give the child up for adoption and she can even anonymously give it to a save haven

maybe it would be better to not pay people to be poor and make babies?

which were established cause before we had save havens mothers just threw their babies in the dumpster

But at the same time they both engaged in sex

Knee slapper

you take that risk

@That Guy [ なに!?! ] and? Thats still her choice

It is his as well

no

he contributed nothing to that choice

He didn't chose to have sex?

He was raped?

Rip