Message from @Maksim
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no you cant do anything you want with your wife
i mean sexually
yes thats what i mean
you cant do anything sexually there are limits there as well
i'm gonna go eat. still don't see how you can explain the practice of "pleasure marriage" with this
feel free to type it out and i'll answer later
god created us with certain desires, wether its food, or loving to have property, or children, or being attracted to women
the only reason i have to being married is so i dont fall into fornication. your wife would be the halal way to fulfill the desire
@Deleted User You don't think that sex is meant purely for reproduction in a marriage?
this life isnt the real life, its just a test for what happense next
Sex is not about pleasure, and never should be
no its not @Maksim
sex is about pleasure as well
I disagree
your understanding is wrong then
Pleasure is a motivation of the flesh
We should reject it
who gave you flesh
What we lose here we gain 10 fold in heaven
who put that motivation in you
Giving us the want for pleasure
God did not give us the want for pleasure
Satan did
you think too highly of satan
I don’t think the use of pleasure to mitigate suffering is the appropriate approach the everyday Man should face life with, and much to my chagrin, it often is the case.
Satan influenced Eve to sin, and Eve influenced Adam to sin
God commanded us to not eat from the tree
Yet they did
the quran said they both sinned, doesnt say who did it first
Because of Satan
Eve sinned first
She then for Adam to sin
Adam was resistant at first
This is why God commands that the woman is below the man
And why they must be controlled
Because they will always try to draw their men to sin
Such as with sex
@Deleted User because the moment you rely on pleasures to affirm your life, is the moment you willingly allow your happiness to be contingent on the material and not spiritual, on the ephemeral. This is the path of the hedonist, and the willing slave.
@Ater Votum you are mixing up
what is the meaning of life to you exactly?