Message from @RandyLahey
Discord ID: 521554761833775104
I'm currently at work, so I can only contribute little by little at the moment, but I'll be able to interact more later on
Thanks for doing this. Divorce is a key issue right now. Possibly the most widespread too.
It feels like the movement towards equality will gain footing on this issue, but all the groups are so disconnected, like cells
That's very true. And a lot of us are fighting at odds. This is really what the men are human site was meant to fix originally. I'm planning on expanding it into an entire community. Not only that, I'm working with the mods of the sub to make it (eventually) into a full backup of the sub itself that can act as a refuge of Reddit shuts us down
Early days though
I'm working on gathering information (experiences, data, cases, thoughts) and meeting with people who want to make a positive influence as well. Between publications, podcasts, online document resources... a hub could prove quite useful
I'm willing to install a forum with good spam protection, but the one I have in mind is outside my budget.
If we could do a funding drive on here, it would really help
$125 isn't that much if we all chip in.
Other than that, I was going to install Voats, but I can't work out how
It's a pain in the ass.
Let me see how much I have after Christmas. I'm willing to chip
If you make it a Facebook thing, I can share and promote that, too
A facebook thing?
Facebook allows people to show support for a cause and ask others to raise funds
Eeeh, I'm no good with facebook, lol
I don't see that avenume having much success for revenue, but it's an option
Glad this channel is here.
Worst part of this situation is when you lost your job because the woman and the woman refuses to work.
Anyone have any advice on how to protect myself in case she tries to accuse me of domestic violence? Like this video? http://worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh1tBBqLvqA2uy4I59
GYOW, mostly.
Pence rule ought to help, but nothing is perfect.
Well, a body-cam would be pretty close but who's going to do that.
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Pence rule is good enough mostly
Don't be alone together
I actually bought a cheap 'spy pen' thing to record while I'm in public if I put it in my pocket. Bloody thing doesn't work though
whats the pence rule?
I am thinking about a voice recorder. Is that not enough?
Pence rule is just don't be alone with a woman except for one's wife, although in this case that would apply to your wife too.
So you bring a witness to even a conversatino
so people grab friends for private conversations
and don't shut their office door
The same sort of principle is why many offices are built to be partially see-through today
@Men Are Human why xenforo, isn't mybb better and free
@asparkofpyrokravte I don't think pence rule applies here. I am in a pretty bad situation where I have no friends here and I am trying to have a conversation with my spouse when she comes back from overseas that I want to separate.
I don't want any accusations of DV if she does that.
If you are initiating divorce you are in a pretty unique situation. A voice recorder is a good idea, but ideally you'd have the conversation somewhere that isn't completely private.
Also check on the recording laws of your country, and make sure the thing works