Message from @asparkofpyrokravte

Discord ID: 521578571517657088


2018-12-08 20:48:15 UTC  

Let me see how much I have after Christmas. I'm willing to chip

2018-12-08 20:48:30 UTC  

If you make it a Facebook thing, I can share and promote that, too

2018-12-09 08:58:44 UTC  

A facebook thing?

2018-12-09 15:31:57 UTC  

Facebook allows people to show support for a cause and ask others to raise funds

2018-12-09 16:23:08 UTC  

Eeeh, I'm no good with facebook, lol

2018-12-09 16:42:20 UTC  

I don't see that avenume having much success for revenue, but it's an option

2018-12-10 05:05:22 UTC  

Glad this channel is here.

2018-12-10 05:07:51 UTC  

Worst part of this situation is when you lost your job because the woman and the woman refuses to work.

2018-12-10 05:12:25 UTC  

Anyone have any advice on how to protect myself in case she tries to accuse me of domestic violence? Like this video? http://worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh1tBBqLvqA2uy4I59

2018-12-10 06:36:28 UTC  

GYOW, mostly.

2018-12-10 06:37:06 UTC  

Pence rule ought to help, but nothing is perfect.

2018-12-10 06:37:29 UTC  

Well, a body-cam would be pretty close but who's going to do that.

2018-12-10 06:37:38 UTC  

..

2018-12-10 06:37:42 UTC  

Pence rule is good enough mostly

2018-12-10 06:38:19 UTC  

Don't be alone together

2018-12-10 06:38:28 UTC  

I actually bought a cheap 'spy pen' thing to record while I'm in public if I put it in my pocket. Bloody thing doesn't work though

2018-12-10 06:42:12 UTC  

whats the pence rule?

2018-12-10 06:42:36 UTC  

I am thinking about a voice recorder. Is that not enough?

2018-12-10 06:43:55 UTC  
2018-12-10 06:46:31 UTC  

Pence rule is just don't be alone with a woman except for one's wife, although in this case that would apply to your wife too.

2018-12-10 06:47:01 UTC  

So you bring a witness to even a conversatino

2018-12-10 06:47:26 UTC  

so people grab friends for private conversations

2018-12-10 06:47:40 UTC  

and don't shut their office door

2018-12-10 06:48:10 UTC  

The same sort of principle is why many offices are built to be partially see-through today

2018-12-10 06:48:28 UTC  

@Men Are Human why xenforo, isn't mybb better and free

2018-12-10 06:49:50 UTC  

@asparkofpyrokravte I don't think pence rule applies here. I am in a pretty bad situation where I have no friends here and I am trying to have a conversation with my spouse when she comes back from overseas that I want to separate.

2018-12-10 06:50:17 UTC  

I don't want any accusations of DV if she does that.

2018-12-10 06:50:50 UTC  

If you are initiating divorce you are in a pretty unique situation. A voice recorder is a good idea, but ideally you'd have the conversation somewhere that isn't completely private.

2018-12-10 06:51:04 UTC  

Also check on the recording laws of your country, and make sure the thing works

2018-12-10 06:51:21 UTC  

initating separation

2018-12-10 06:51:27 UTC  

Ah, right

2018-12-10 06:51:31 UTC  

It isn't divorce yet

2018-12-10 06:51:46 UTC  

Im from SC so the grounds that I only have is 1 year separation

2018-12-10 06:52:02 UTC  

^ though even if it's illegal to record, chances are no one will know unless you have to use the recording, and its worth it to record it because you'll get a lot less trouble with that than a DV charge

2018-12-10 06:52:33 UTC  

my situation is kind of unique, fucked myself signing the affadvit of support.

2018-12-10 06:52:38 UTC  

That is a good point, but if that is the case and you have time to prepare you'd just have a witness instead and skip the illegal step

2018-12-10 06:53:30 UTC  

The voice recorder is if you have to do day-to-day stuff in the house when you can't get a witness

2018-12-10 06:53:35 UTC  

It's worth mentioning that having someone there at the time OR recording aren't going to stop past accusations of DV

2018-12-10 06:53:57 UTC  

that is very worth mentioning, yes.

2018-12-10 06:54:26 UTC  

jesus, I am out of it.

2018-12-10 06:54:40 UTC  

This situation is over my head