Men take so long to get over a painful breakup, even if they have someone else the pain is still there

Women can rely on other people to help them

Men can't

I hope that all makes sense

Well, this is MY story, ongoing, and it's a daily struggle. Not only do I have to work on myself, work on the divorce, work, and also enjoy my time with the kids (which I do tremendously), I also have to be alone with my thoughts of self-doubt/worth and all the emotions that comes with.

I'm open for discussion, advice, direction.

I think my advice is that we should get more people involved from /r/divorcedmen so we can really get this going

I agree.

They seem very supportive and aggressively active when it comes to men's and father's rights

Would you be willing to post about the discord on the divorce forums you participate in? Your recommendation will have a lot more clout than mine could.

If you talk to the mods they may sticky it for you too

Absoloutely

I'm on a hell of a trip...and I hope in the wake, that someone can benefit from my experience

I'm currently at work, so I can only contribute little by little at the moment, but I'll be able to interact more later on

Thanks for doing this. Divorce is a key issue right now. Possibly the most widespread too.

It feels like the movement towards equality will gain footing on this issue, but all the groups are so disconnected, like cells

That's very true. And a lot of us are fighting at odds. This is really what the men are human site was meant to fix originally. I'm planning on expanding it into an entire community. Not only that, I'm working with the mods of the sub to make it (eventually) into a full backup of the sub itself that can act as a refuge of Reddit shuts us down

Early days though

I'm working on gathering information (experiences, data, cases, thoughts) and meeting with people who want to make a positive influence as well. Between publications, podcasts, online document resources... a hub could prove quite useful

I'm willing to install a forum with good spam protection, but the one I have in mind is outside my budget.

https://xenforo.com/purchase/

If we could do a funding drive on here, it would really help

$125 isn't that much if we all chip in.

Other than that, I was going to install Voats, but I can't work out how

It's a pain in the ass.

Let me see how much I have after Christmas. I'm willing to chip

If you make it a Facebook thing, I can share and promote that, too

A facebook thing?

Facebook allows people to show support for a cause and ask others to raise funds

Eeeh, I'm no good with facebook, lol

I don't see that avenume having much success for revenue, but it's an option

Glad this channel is here.

Worst part of this situation is when you lost your job because the woman and the woman refuses to work.

Anyone have any advice on how to protect myself in case she tries to accuse me of domestic violence? Like this video? http://worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh1tBBqLvqA2uy4I59

GYOW, mostly.

Pence rule ought to help, but nothing is perfect.

Well, a body-cam would be pretty close but who's going to do that.

..

Pence rule is good enough mostly

Don't be alone together

I actually bought a cheap 'spy pen' thing to record while I'm in public if I put it in my pocket. Bloody thing doesn't work though