I'm in. I've got a lot of issues, and am making rounds in the different subs that offere assistance of any kind.

TLDR of my story

Please may I clarify, is this your issue or one you're posting for discussion?

Like, its similar or?

Cause trust me I hate social media... I guess Reddit is similar... But that's so...

I've been cheated on from someone I truly cared for. Not marriage, but it may as well have been

I think if a man and woman decide to end a marriage.. besides custody of kids and alimony after divorce, his issue is not enough support. No matter who is right or wrong, they take her side

Men take so long to get over a painful breakup, even if they have someone else the pain is still there

Women can rely on other people to help them

Men can't

I hope that all makes sense

Well, this is MY story, ongoing, and it's a daily struggle. Not only do I have to work on myself, work on the divorce, work, and also enjoy my time with the kids (which I do tremendously), I also have to be alone with my thoughts of self-doubt/worth and all the emotions that comes with.

I'm open for discussion, advice, direction.

I think my advice is that we should get more people involved from /r/divorcedmen so we can really get this going

I agree.

They seem very supportive and aggressively active when it comes to men's and father's rights

Would you be willing to post about the discord on the divorce forums you participate in? Your recommendation will have a lot more clout than mine could.

If you talk to the mods they may sticky it for you too

Absoloutely

I'm on a hell of a trip...and I hope in the wake, that someone can benefit from my experience

I'm currently at work, so I can only contribute little by little at the moment, but I'll be able to interact more later on

Thanks for doing this. Divorce is a key issue right now. Possibly the most widespread too.

It feels like the movement towards equality will gain footing on this issue, but all the groups are so disconnected, like cells

That's very true. And a lot of us are fighting at odds. This is really what the men are human site was meant to fix originally. I'm planning on expanding it into an entire community. Not only that, I'm working with the mods of the sub to make it (eventually) into a full backup of the sub itself that can act as a refuge of Reddit shuts us down

Early days though

I'm working on gathering information (experiences, data, cases, thoughts) and meeting with people who want to make a positive influence as well. Between publications, podcasts, online document resources... a hub could prove quite useful

I'm willing to install a forum with good spam protection, but the one I have in mind is outside my budget.

https://xenforo.com/purchase/

If we could do a funding drive on here, it would really help

$125 isn't that much if we all chip in.