Message from @RandyLahey
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Eh, it isn't going to catch some things
but
It will catch almost all relevant things
So long as you've got a mic that picks up lots of stuff
Any sound of someone hitting another will be caught
If you're speaking calmly the whole time
that'll be caught
if you're trying to diffuse that will be caught
if you object to her hitting you, it is going to be hella hard for her to claim that you were the one who actually hit her
Yeah, I am worried about when I leave the apt to get out of the situation, then she assaults herself then points the finger.
She still has to give a day and time
if your mic catches the sound of your car door closing
well, you weren't in the house
if she claims it happened in the morning, your mic should lend credibillity to your claim that nothing serious happened at that time
Let's be real mate, although false accusations do happen, you don't know your partner is gonna be the one to make them. Take the precautions you can absolutely, but dont stress too much about something that will probably never happen
Right
And that's something that I was thinking of asking
Do you have a real reason to suspect your partner is going to go apeshit over this?
She went apeshit before
That is what I thought
Oh
shit
thats why I am asking.
Are you in a field that requires an enhanced disclosure? Yea, you can't even have a driving arrest within x number of time to stay employed...
Well fuck, that changes things. Getting accused normally isn't a huge problem if you can convince the prosecutor it is a waste of time, which a mic should be rather sufficient at
If you have to avoid even arrest
well
@InsaneCaterpilla well, good standing and trustworthy to be trusted by the government.
It's probably much the same. I know how it works in the UK because I'm starting a security job next year, but idk the US
its one of those military sec clearance
Speaking of apeshit, she says she is pregnant, I don't trust her if she is telling the truth or just a ruse. So I am waiting until she comes back to find out.
I don't know anything about security clearances in any country. But if you judge that you really, really need to avoid accusation, as opposed to having a good divorce outcome, that changes your priorities a bit. And...oh hell
Oof, that would suck if she is... Is it likely?
no idea. Last time was middle oct, and we used a rubber
I feel like she is full of shit, but the confidence she has now is off putting
Have you been giving signs that you wanna break up? That's when most women would say such a thing to try and keep together, I believe
Yeah.
sep/div eventually
Well let's hope its a lie mate. If its not what do you plan to do?
I'm beginning to feel this is complicated enough, and also early enough that calling up an authority on the subject from the MRM might be useful. Does the NCFM handle advice on this sort of thing? Because of the child and the ambiguous nature of it state-specific stuff might come into play.