Though they also mentioned my posting in the_donald so who knows which one did me in.

I wouldn't worry about being banned from a sub for association and not for doing something wrong. Subs that do that aren't worth anything

This is true

And it’s not like you can change it.

I guess it just makes me sad that discrimination is so widely accepted

its not... discrimination... I mean it can be... but its more than they want an echo chamber

any reddit that bans someone for having a different opinion doesn't WANT different opinions, they want to reinforce whatever they are saying to themselves

anyone that disrupts that is unwelcome

^

"treatment or consideration of, or making a distinction in favor of or against, a person or thing based on the group, class, or category to which that person or thing belongs rather than on individual merit: "

okay I'm wrong its discrimination

The mod specifically called me out for being a poster in this two subs and then banned me a shirt while later.

One of my comments was removed and then under that he wrote "banned". I think he's trying to make it look as though he found a comment that violated the sub rules or something.

you mean he made a comment on your deleted post that said banned for all to see?

because that is grandstanding and has no place in proper reddit moderation

I mean its not exactly enough to file a complaint... but its still low and below his station as moderator

sounds petty

I filed a complaints

I'm sure nothing will come from it but oh well.

The complaint covered the bullying the mod engaged in and the ban. The ban, ok whatever. But mocking and bullying me then banning me so I can't respond bothers me.

yeah thats unbecoming of a mod for such a large reddit

Bullying by mods is messed up. And on a large sub?

Shit I don’t know if this belongs here but man, the Internet is changing in weird ways.

Wherever I go I feel like I don’t belong.

To clarify, I’ve no problem with people who like anime, and I understand why they like it. But I start having a problem when the chats I’m in start getting plagued by weeb talk, shit that could be considered straight out of /r/creepyasterisks

Or full of “uwu” and “owo” and whatever the hell else.

Apparently I don’t belong on most of servers if I wanna have serious discussions, and that basically means talking about cars, motorcycles, movies, games, etc.

No it all has to be “ironic” discussions in whatever fucking way they deem right. Whether it is creepy talk or not.

I just wanna be able to join a fucking gaming server and talk about the game and other shit without the “ironic” talk. Which honestly in my mind I fucking doubt it’s ironic at this point.

Kind of how flat earth started as an ironic movement but then it progressed to being real for some people

Is it really that ducking weird that I want normal discussions?

And to top it off, some dude and I were quarreling and I figured “hey, I’ll do the manly thing, take the high road and tell them I’ve no grudge against them just because we have different opinions”

All he does is reply “you’re weird as hell dude”

Fuckin Christ man, am I really the weird one? Do I really not belong anywhere?

I think finding somewhere you 'belong' or feel at home is potentially a lifelong pursuit. Nothing wrong with them wanting a certain kind of place, and you craving another. The search continues another day longer. No worries

Which is fine, the fact that people want different things. As they say, if everyone wanted the same thing life would be boring.

I suggested having two separate channels, one where more real discussions were taking place and one where they can shitpost all they want. Been mocked and ignored.

Are people who mock others people you want to be around? No great loss

The server I’m talking about is the apex legends server. I’m there to meet new people who share the same interest as me (apex legends the game) and find people to play with, but at the same time I wanted to also get to know people better you know, and be a part of a community.

But nooope, I’m the weird one who should gtfo.

I'm fairly sure apex legends is being the new fortnite and filling up with 12 year olds who have had your mother. Probably doesn't make a thrilling community

At the risk of this sounding straight out of /r/niceguys I’ll go ahead and say It anyway.

I feel like being nice to people just@comes around to bite me in the ass more than it is rewarding. All I wanna do is be kind to others and you know, help them out yada yada, I ask for nothing but a bit of respect in return.

But no. I keep getting bit in the ass whether it’s IRL or on the internet. Fuck should I do? Become rude and cold to people?? It just ain’t in my nature.

You can't force people to do anything, all you control is yourself. Being nice in general should be for your own selfs sake, that it makes you confident in being a good person. It doesn't require respect or validation in return