so always make sure you are cared for before helping others

Yeah good advice @Max

@Thedemogamer💙 Wow. If they are saying they'll kill themselves if you don't support them, that's outright emotional blackmail. You should cut people like that out of your life.

So I guess I’ll post the update, it’s been a numb but better then bad day, I have a crappy cold still, but one of them texted me back (the screenshot one) and told me she was okay with it and just didn’t know what to say, she wished me luck in the future, and the other one hasn’t been texting me (probably a good thing) the possible Pregnant one is studying and I’m kinda alone, but that’s okay.

Finally chilling with some Netflix, and trying to just relax.

It's good you feel like you can relax now

I'm feeling kind of down guys. I got banned from another sub for being a poster in men's rights sub.

Though they also mentioned my posting in the_donald so who knows which one did me in.

I wouldn't worry about being banned from a sub for association and not for doing something wrong. Subs that do that aren't worth anything

This is true

And it’s not like you can change it.

I guess it just makes me sad that discrimination is so widely accepted

its not... discrimination... I mean it can be... but its more than they want an echo chamber

any reddit that bans someone for having a different opinion doesn't WANT different opinions, they want to reinforce whatever they are saying to themselves

anyone that disrupts that is unwelcome

^

"treatment or consideration of, or making a distinction in favor of or against, a person or thing based on the group, class, or category to which that person or thing belongs rather than on individual merit: "

okay I'm wrong its discrimination

The mod specifically called me out for being a poster in this two subs and then banned me a shirt while later.

One of my comments was removed and then under that he wrote "banned". I think he's trying to make it look as though he found a comment that violated the sub rules or something.

you mean he made a comment on your deleted post that said banned for all to see?

because that is grandstanding and has no place in proper reddit moderation

I mean its not exactly enough to file a complaint... but its still low and below his station as moderator

sounds petty

I filed a complaints

I'm sure nothing will come from it but oh well.

The complaint covered the bullying the mod engaged in and the ban. The ban, ok whatever. But mocking and bullying me then banning me so I can't respond bothers me.

yeah thats unbecoming of a mod for such a large reddit

Bullying by mods is messed up. And on a large sub?

Shit I don’t know if this belongs here but man, the Internet is changing in weird ways.

Wherever I go I feel like I don’t belong.

To clarify, I’ve no problem with people who like anime, and I understand why they like it. But I start having a problem when the chats I’m in start getting plagued by weeb talk, shit that could be considered straight out of /r/creepyasterisks

Or full of “uwu” and “owo” and whatever the hell else.

Apparently I don’t belong on most of servers if I wanna have serious discussions, and that basically means talking about cars, motorcycles, movies, games, etc.

No it all has to be “ironic” discussions in whatever fucking way they deem right. Whether it is creepy talk or not.

I just wanna be able to join a fucking gaming server and talk about the game and other shit without the “ironic” talk. Which honestly in my mind I fucking doubt it’s ironic at this point.

Kind of how flat earth started as an ironic movement but then it progressed to being real for some people

Is it really that ducking weird that I want normal discussions?

And to top it off, some dude and I were quarreling and I figured “hey, I’ll do the manly thing, take the high road and tell them I’ve no grudge against them just because we have different opinions”

All he does is reply “you’re weird as hell dude”

Fuckin Christ man, am I really the weird one? Do I really not belong anywhere?

I think finding somewhere you 'belong' or feel at home is potentially a lifelong pursuit. Nothing wrong with them wanting a certain kind of place, and you craving another. The search continues another day longer. No worries