You're probably being a much better person than they would enjoy to you

If you were emotionally needy

Dude, the last time I talked to this chick before this she just kept leaving me on read when I tried to make conversation

She literally came to me two months ago called me I answered she cried I got emotionally invested.

Then she told me how life sucked, then Started hitting on me (she has a boyfriend) and told me her ex (I person I actually knew I didn’t know her well) was a terrible person and should die.

I don’t know much about this chick and the one time I asked for her help she said she needed to take care of herself. (This was like 2 years ago) I said okay, then later she never texted me back again and now I somehow owe her something

Aghhhhh, I’m just venting at this point but it’s always seeming to be females that minipulate me and I’m not even interested romantically or sexually I don’t usually care if we are friend so I don’t know why I feel like I have to help them.

Even my current friend (who actually doesn’t suck, the possibly pregnant one) says that they are all terrible for it, but I just hate it.

outside observer, that all sounds like a huge boatload of manipulation, you are not imagining it, you are being actively and continuosly manipulated

I agree you're being manipulated

Yeah, and I can relate. I’ve been in similar situations with manipulative individuals before

Me too. I was manipulated and bamboozled.

Also never care what a friend or family member of hers has to say. If they start bothering you about how you're treating the person I suggest politely telling them to not contact you again

never let anyone give you shit for taking care of yourself

thats just messed up

you always have to leave room for yourself, because you come first

you put the air mask on yourself before putting it on your child

because you can only be capable of taking of others if you are capable of taking care of yourself

so always make sure you are cared for before helping others

Yeah good advice @Max

@Thedemogamer💙 Wow. If they are saying they'll kill themselves if you don't support them, that's outright emotional blackmail. You should cut people like that out of your life.

So I guess I’ll post the update, it’s been a numb but better then bad day, I have a crappy cold still, but one of them texted me back (the screenshot one) and told me she was okay with it and just didn’t know what to say, she wished me luck in the future, and the other one hasn’t been texting me (probably a good thing) the possible Pregnant one is studying and I’m kinda alone, but that’s okay.

Finally chilling with some Netflix, and trying to just relax.

It's good you feel like you can relax now

I'm feeling kind of down guys. I got banned from another sub for being a poster in men's rights sub.

Though they also mentioned my posting in the_donald so who knows which one did me in.

I wouldn't worry about being banned from a sub for association and not for doing something wrong. Subs that do that aren't worth anything

This is true

And it’s not like you can change it.

I guess it just makes me sad that discrimination is so widely accepted

its not... discrimination... I mean it can be... but its more than they want an echo chamber

any reddit that bans someone for having a different opinion doesn't WANT different opinions, they want to reinforce whatever they are saying to themselves

anyone that disrupts that is unwelcome

^

"treatment or consideration of, or making a distinction in favor of or against, a person or thing based on the group, class, or category to which that person or thing belongs rather than on individual merit: "

okay I'm wrong its discrimination

The mod specifically called me out for being a poster in this two subs and then banned me a shirt while later.

One of my comments was removed and then under that he wrote "banned". I think he's trying to make it look as though he found a comment that violated the sub rules or something.

you mean he made a comment on your deleted post that said banned for all to see?

because that is grandstanding and has no place in proper reddit moderation

I mean its not exactly enough to file a complaint... but its still low and below his station as moderator

sounds petty