Message from @Silver_The_Bard

Discord ID: 519280659311886349


2018-12-03 14:45:55 UTC  

In other words, it's not a problem for you, just everyone else lol xD

2018-12-03 14:49:27 UTC  

exactly, except my dad... because I can never pour myself one without him asking me to get him one too xD

2018-12-03 15:14:44 UTC  

Just wanted to post this since it was an add that ran on TV here, proof that things are changing

2018-12-03 15:20:50 UTC  

Slowly but surely, we'll get there

2018-12-03 15:24:20 UTC  

What’s the fastest way to grow this discord? From regular conversations many people have MRA views, but actually unifying them or getting them to join discord is like 40% successful

2018-12-03 15:26:45 UTC  

I think we should ask goodmod to put it in the subreddit sidebar

2018-12-03 15:27:27 UTC  

I’ll message someone one now hopefully the understand

2018-12-03 15:28:04 UTC  

Message someone you want to get to come here you mean?

2018-12-03 15:28:23 UTC  

No to have them add it to the side bar

2018-12-03 15:28:32 UTC  

Goodmod comes here

2018-12-03 15:29:28 UTC  

When you said goodmod I thought you meant good mod XD nvm then

2018-12-03 15:30:19 UTC  

I’ll continue to keep sharing this discord hopefully it gains some traction

2018-12-03 15:33:39 UTC  

👍

2018-12-03 16:48:19 UTC  

I actually have a html button that could be used in the sidebar for the discord @goodmod

2018-12-03 16:48:30 UTC  

If you are up for the idea!

2018-12-03 22:23:51 UTC  

2018-12-03 22:35:34 UTC  

Hey yall

2018-12-03 22:35:56 UTC  

Howdy @RandyLahey .

2018-12-03 22:37:13 UTC  
2018-12-03 22:40:02 UTC  

Been following MenRights for a while. Trying to get out of a BPD marriage.

2018-12-03 22:47:38 UTC  

That sound troubling, is there specific things that are holding you down like Money, kids or emotional guilt? Something that is stopping you from just being able to leave?

2018-12-03 22:48:25 UTC  

I posted something on Divorce_men Subreddit.

2018-12-03 22:49:40 UTC  

This might belong in the support channel.

2018-12-03 22:56:21 UTC  

That’s really rough, I’m sorry you have to deal with this kind of shit 😦

2018-12-03 22:57:03 UTC  

Yeah, she is coming back in 10 days.

2018-12-03 22:59:40 UTC  

But the comments you where getting are good, Financially seperate yourself from this woman and get out of there as soon as possible, I don’t think she has much of a case against you but just in case, try and get a lawyer and maybe save some evidence of her threatening you, either messages or voice clips... also just get out of there as soon as possible, your mental health is what is at stake and you won’t be able to perform well at your job anyway if you home life is causing you this much stress in the first place.

2018-12-03 23:00:48 UTC  

oh crap. I don't think you have the most up-to-date info

2018-12-03 23:03:27 UTC  

Unfortunately, I can't leave yet as she claims to be pregnant. I have to find out if it is true.

2018-12-03 23:05:47 UTC  

But, it is typical BPD behavior, so I am in a state of uncertainity.

2018-12-03 23:11:43 UTC  

The only real advice I can give you right now is to lawyer up, they can help you with any legal uncertainties as well, also try and get some alone time where you can, go out for a jog and try to keep your head clear as best you can, the more stressed you get the more likely you are to make a small mistake that can hurt you in the long run, and of course we are here too if you just need someone to talk to, there are a lot of guys who have been dragged through similar minefields, so they can empathise with your situation.

2018-12-03 23:18:34 UTC  

appreciate it.

2018-12-03 23:20:47 UTC  

I have 10 days to get ready.

2018-12-04 04:56:35 UTC  

Good luck friend.

2018-12-04 08:05:21 UTC  

"‘By his own admission in the complaint (the boy) desired and maintained the sexual relationship with Ms. McCarter in order to derive a personal benefit - initially to extend his stay at the McCarters’ residence and then to ensure his return therein."

2018-12-04 08:05:30 UTC  

Huuurk