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2018-12-09 10:19:10 UTC  

That’s fair, but still... makes you think sometimes, I feel like hearing men’s stuff out I would have been supportive no doubt, but not active like I am now.

2018-12-09 10:21:41 UTC  

My original reasons for getting involved where selfish, I wanted support and people to listen, now I want to return the favour by sticking up for the movement where I can, which is why I get so annoyed when people say that the MRM is just for men and they hate women and blah blah blah, when all that shit is the complete opposite to my experiences, but apparently what I think doesn’t matter, I’m just in here to get some dick apparently (or so I have been told)

2018-12-09 10:24:15 UTC  

I don't get that.. I mean, its much easier for women to get sex, women do have a monopoly of choice when it comes to that after all. Saying you do it just to get dick is equivalent to name calling, ie: must be repulsive kinda thing

2018-12-09 10:24:59 UTC  

I have had an actual real life feminist say to my face “you have a boyfriend now so you don’t need to be an MRA anymore”

2018-12-09 10:25:12 UTC  

>.<

2018-12-09 10:25:29 UTC  

Well, you can't expect most feminists to be rational, I guess

2018-12-09 10:26:08 UTC  

It’s funny because they get so upset at people for accusing male feminist of the same shit they accuse me of, it’s just insanity

2018-12-09 10:26:19 UTC  

Catch the poke in the lounge

2018-12-09 10:26:57 UTC  

Done xD

2018-12-09 10:28:18 UTC  

At the end of the day it's just discrediting tactics... You only do x because you're a horrible person! Only horrible people do x! Without actually addressing what x is. It's a falsehood and a defensive mechanism they aren't able to overcome by listening and paying attention

2018-12-09 12:09:55 UTC  

@Abbysol “you have a boyfriend now so you don’t need to be an MRA anymore” Makes me wonder about a lot of odd behavior I've seen. Honestly, projection is such a valid theory - at least regarding people like that.

2018-12-09 16:52:58 UTC  

2018-12-09 16:54:19 UTC  

I lost so much fucking braincells

2018-12-09 16:54:24 UTC  

Reading that

2018-12-09 16:56:12 UTC  

I really doubt that there are fewer independent female content creators or youtube stars.

2018-12-09 17:02:23 UTC  

hi

2018-12-09 17:22:41 UTC  

Hello!

2018-12-09 17:24:38 UTC  

how are you?

2018-12-09 19:01:43 UTC  

Doing alright! Just redesigning the mobile site.

2018-12-09 19:01:47 UTC  

How about you?

2018-12-09 20:02:13 UTC  

It seems so silly that there are not more female content creators in the spotlight, they get so much support it seems silly that they just completely squander it.

2018-12-09 20:03:59 UTC  

Granted, the majority of creators that are women tend to gravitate more towards makeup and product reviews, so I doubt you will see many of them on any gaming channels or stuff like that

2018-12-09 20:40:33 UTC  

A woman who has made a number of unsubstantiated rape allegations.

2018-12-09 23:51:26 UTC  

why is male suicide higher then female?

2018-12-09 23:54:58 UTC  

ive allways wondered that

2018-12-09 23:57:41 UTC  

There are quite a few contributing factors, but I think a big reason if because getting help when you are in a bad mind space isn’t seen as appropriate by a lot of men, where women are expected to always share their feelings.

2018-12-09 23:59:18 UTC  

A lot of men won’t reach out when they need help because they fear being mocked or ignored or just don’t know where to find help so don’t bother with it

2018-12-10 00:01:58 UTC  

I thought the attempt at suicide is higher for women but the actual fatal results are higher for men since they tend to take more serious routes guns etc

2018-12-10 00:03:04 UTC  

I think also since women are more likely to talk about it, someone is more likely to intervene, even in a serious attempt

2018-12-10 00:05:03 UTC  

Agreed and the method often used by females such as pills, often have a longer period of being able to recover from

2018-12-10 00:06:15 UTC  

Either way, my point still stays the same, there needs to be outlets for men to express these kinds of thoughts without the fear of being either shunned or ignored

2018-12-10 03:33:34 UTC  

From my understanding, both of those arguments are the leading contributors.

2018-12-10 04:20:55 UTC  

2018-12-10 04:56:37 UTC  

@lazzzycarrot(30) / senpai(40) the attempt at suicide rate does appear to be higher for women. However, actual suicides aren't just slightly more male, but closer to 3x more male (slightly more depending on age, slightly less if you stick to a more restrictive category like teen only).

2018-12-10 04:57:29 UTC  

Moreover, unlike what you may have heard, women attempt suicide only about 1.2x than men: https://afsp.org/about-suicide/suicide-statistics/

2018-12-10 04:57:49 UTC  

The 2x figure is based on ER statistics

2018-12-10 04:57:58 UTC  

I think we’re saying the same thing