being friends sounds fine

Guess we'll see if they're serious about being friends

They're mad that you made them carry too much baggage?

The fuck?

Is there some kind of metaphor I'm missing?

@Deleted User basically they felt like he was taking the relationship too seriously despite everythinv that happened to them

Aka they want an excuse to be single again

That's bullshit, if they didn't wanna be in a fuckin relationship, why not tell your partner that instead of ghosting them?

Fucking people these days.

^ Even if she wanted to move on she should have taken your feelings into consideration more. It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong and you deserve an answer at least. God damn.

But yeah, try not to rely on booze and pills. Self medication only numbs the pain and even then it works for so long.

My boomer dad once told me that girls want edgy people before they want nice guys, and that the nice guys that ere there before are no longer happy and nice from the abuse of them. This just gets more and more solidified to me the older I get. I wish I could turn back time to when I was a kid, everything just sucks ass now.

I haven’t had a single good event occur to me since I dated her, I feel so broken and it hurts so bad. It’s so odd to think a week ago she said that she wanted to stay with me until the end of time.

@T-34 Waifu
You need to move on.
Real talk if your this pathetic after your break up then it's no wonder why she left you.

Excuse me if I’m a full blown retard who doesn’t know how to move on

@bdog My dude, everyone has their way of coping with loss.

He's just confused is all.

Girls are weird

@Deleted User
No. This is fucking sad. The only people who act this way are spineless emotional leeches.
He needs to stop dwelling and think about how she made him so perfect and happy. No human being will do this for you. It is something that no one will give you. it is something you feel from the moment and not the person.

^

I used to be like that

@bdog fuck off, I agree that a certain part of what you're saying is true (he SHOULD move on) but calling him a spineless emotional leech when you're a fucking virgin that has never even been in a relationship with a human being, if you actually knew what it's like to lose a huge part of the hope for your future like that, unannounced, then you'd be sympathising with him

All I can do is think about how she made me feel happy, thing is, I can’t really be happy because of that. It just makes me fake a smile and feel empty.

@bdog Yeah, alright.

He isn't here to look for people to make him feel good and to leech on, he's here to fucking vent and that's what <#462997453181026307> is about

@T-34 Waifu It's gonna be fine my dude, you'll find the right girl for you.

@Clitzkrieg
What are you a fucking retard? I have two sons. I am in a relationship.

Two?

You don't fucking act like it

@Clitzkrieg
Then how am I suspose to act? By babying someone on the internet?

Not being an asshole and not acting like you're better than everyone

@Clitzkrieg
Never once do I do that.

I am honest and shitpost. But I dont act like I'm better then anyone

How does that sound like I'm better then them? I'm being honest.

" wow, look at him, he's leeching on you" it's a way of saying someone's shit to make you feel better about yourself

My ass. I'm trying to explain that being a leech for someone emotionally is fucking harmful. It's called negative reinforcement.

And it's the truth

Yes, but keeping shit stored up in yourself can be even more hurtful, I know that shit and I've dealt with it, it's better for people to vent. I can recognize someone looking for attention apart from someone venting, if he's saying the truth that we're his only friends he has, then I'm not gonna fucking bail on him

Never suggested that.
Never suggested hes looking for attention
Never implied hes lying
But implying that I'm a virgin who doesnt know what hes talking about? Yeah, okay let's all just mope around and claim its women or blame everything else but our own fucking flaws or even actually vent. This is exactly the kind of shit that made me leave last time.

Do you know the five stages of grief? Just telling someone they have to change on the first 4 isn't gonna do much, if he hasn't accepted it yet then he should vent and let the feelings burn off before trying to better himself