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You can move on

You just need to not dwell on it and accept what happened happened

I don't want to, I just want things to go back to what they were

To be brutally honest

That's not gonna happen

I get that

I got a text that 'toxic' means I made them carry too much baggage. in specific quote "you are *like* my will to live, I love you."

misunderstanding to one of the worse degrees

I fucking hate myself

If only I phrased that better

then I'd still be happy

It's not your fault. It's a case of misunderstanding

If that's the only reason why she left you, maybe you can clear things up and tie up a loose end

It won't bring back your relationship

But it will help you move on

being friends sounds fine

Guess we'll see if they're serious about being friends

They're mad that you made them carry too much baggage?

The fuck?

Is there some kind of metaphor I'm missing?

@Deleted User basically they felt like he was taking the relationship too seriously despite everythinv that happened to them

Aka they want an excuse to be single again

That's bullshit, if they didn't wanna be in a fuckin relationship, why not tell your partner that instead of ghosting them?

Fucking people these days.

^ Even if she wanted to move on she should have taken your feelings into consideration more. It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong and you deserve an answer at least. God damn.

But yeah, try not to rely on booze and pills. Self medication only numbs the pain and even then it works for so long.

My boomer dad once told me that girls want edgy people before they want nice guys, and that the nice guys that ere there before are no longer happy and nice from the abuse of them. This just gets more and more solidified to me the older I get. I wish I could turn back time to when I was a kid, everything just sucks ass now.

I haven’t had a single good event occur to me since I dated her, I feel so broken and it hurts so bad. It’s so odd to think a week ago she said that she wanted to stay with me until the end of time.

@T-34 Waifu
You need to move on.
Real talk if your this pathetic after your break up then it's no wonder why she left you.

Excuse me if I’m a full blown retard who doesn’t know how to move on

@bdog My dude, everyone has their way of coping with loss.

He's just confused is all.

Girls are weird

@Deleted User
No. This is fucking sad. The only people who act this way are spineless emotional leeches.
He needs to stop dwelling and think about how she made him so perfect and happy. No human being will do this for you. It is something that no one will give you. it is something you feel from the moment and not the person.

^

I used to be like that

@bdog fuck off, I agree that a certain part of what you're saying is true (he SHOULD move on) but calling him a spineless emotional leech when you're a fucking virgin that has never even been in a relationship with a human being, if you actually knew what it's like to lose a huge part of the hope for your future like that, unannounced, then you'd be sympathising with him

All I can do is think about how she made me feel happy, thing is, I can’t really be happy because of that. It just makes me fake a smile and feel empty.

@bdog Yeah, alright.

He isn't here to look for people to make him feel good and to leech on, he's here to fucking vent and that's what <#462997453181026307> is about