@ColdEmbraceOfDeath ^

Do you want to be a housewife @Artemis

or do you want to send your child to an institute like kindergarden for nurturing

@Artemis are you a virgin?

@Mysteriedingens I would prefer to not send my kids to kindergarden but instead take care of them myself

Yes

Well, that at least puts you ahead of 90% of the female population

Well, if you're going to do that, you're probably going to have to quit your job, so why do you want a job in the first place?

@Artemis great! You're not completely damaged yet!

>yet

I would go as far as arguing that having children with your first partner, traditional values and proper nurturing will at least bring you far

Doesn't mean it's safe for the guy getting married to her though.

right

Remember ddj words @Mysteriedingens. Even if she marries young, 20 yrs in the future she will desire to "recover what she lost"

There is also no guarantee her first partner would not abuse her pair bonding in the relationship until shes damaged and then we know how it goes usually

Recover what she's lost?

I am willing to take that risk

A virgin thot only increases the strength of the bond, not that it guarantees a stable marriage.

Also, as you said earlier, safety is an illusion

And that is very true

its the system or culture you bring u a women that matters the most,

Yeah.

When it comes to this aswell. There is never a guarantee

social repurcusion and shaming works the best -from what I have witnessed at home

despite the society around us is degrading, as long as you have enough folks from your family who are willing to not put with their shit, the government or rule of law does not matter

thats how we deal it

*with it

Yeah, that is true, that's honestly why women are in line in India to a certain extent

Problem is when they start acting out against family.

Economic independence is bit of a problem as well.

Then you show them the pimp hand, socially castrate and disavow them.

Like they can move out and shit, though India doesn't like bachelors and don't offer a place to rent out if you are unmarried.

in india and around, we tend to limit their education and have them married off as early as possible

true

Not in the Urban areas.

My sister pretty much has a Masters.

Yeah! It is hard in the urban due to the cosmopolitan view.

I would just emphasize on what TFM said "Demographics is Destiny". Its always a numbers game.

Im at work again

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