heh im pretty sure being alive has taught me that one

Calm ya farm.

Anyone here work as a software engineer?

Why do you ask?

I currently am a systems engineer and want to transition into software engineering.

former hardware......storage systems. retired after 20 years.....now a freelancw accountant

Nice! Yeah, I deal with very little storage. Pretty much just VDI or basic server stuff. My company has their own storage admins so they handle it. I wish I could learn more in that space.

i specialized in configuration, logical unit numbers, splicing...the internals hardwired into the systems. very unglamorous work. shirt n tie with a crewdriver and flashlight in my pocket back then

That is still awesome 😄

You're an accountant now?

when i started back in '89 was mostly tape drive servers. yeah, safter retirement got an AA in accounting.

any lawyers here?

for preventing future doxxing purposes, are these chats archived?

Nope, Read Discords TOS

They can get and sell your info.

this is mainly MGTOW discussion correct?

any other MGTOWs discover through the journey the value of saving oneself for marriage?

Marriage is a terrible idea for men. Has allways been a terrible idea since its inception thousands of years ago.

Women dont love . Not in the sense we use the term love in a romantic context.

And that makes perfect evolutionary sense. Men were the ones doing the dying so he coul attach himself to someone longterm, but she had to be ready for the next when he died

brb

Even plato realised that, though he of course didnt have access to the information we have such as evopsych

young...the next time I have sex with a women.....I am married to her

@Deleted User those were your thoughts when young, right?

my thoughts now. when I was young.....I just wanted sex

had a few hookups, a gf back in the 1990's

now? If I have sex again.....I'll be married

We all wanted sexual healing at one point

@Deleted User Would you ever get a vasectomy at age 25 if you KNEW you never wanted kids?

I had one at 45

@machtyn it is reversible, is it not?

it is, but expensive....I don't want kids

not at my age

well id wager if you cant afford having that undone you cant afford kids, either

I wouldn't want kids but I know age 25 is really young so I do still have 2% hesitation 98% certainty.

@Deleted User er ... No, don't marry if you want sex, no matter how hot she is

I could afford kids

Marry only if you desire kids

@Kazemaru Yup!