Message from @Sigma
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self-actualisation is much more fulfilling then meeting your emotional needs - you have a passion for MMA and that's great - don't let anyone sway u off ur path
once you self-actualise, you'll have a scope of how everything fits together
The self-actualization can be visualized by the pyramid. Moslow's hierarchy of human needs
yeah exactly
emotional needs are at the bottom
that's what im refering to
physiological needs are at the bottom
yea
emotional are 2 under self actualisation
i tihnk 2
ooh
you're right
the top one, that wasn't published but maslow was working on just before he died, was self-transcendence that is actually on top of self-actualisation
just googled it
I've heard of self- transcendence
Don't know how to do that
@JDB yeah but I think there is a reason why we have this void, and the reason take place in childhood. i think some part of the maslow hierarchy are build during childhood. If they are not built well, there are those voids
the only way to self-actualise, and then transcend, is to be alone in your head and 'tidy up' things.
don't really know how to self-actualize either, but I've always thought that you need to meet all of the things below the top of the pyramid before you can self-actualize
@Shido yeah, it';s fustrating but the sooner you become conscious of this the sooner you can fill it and build further layers of 'meaing'
I don't think all of my needs were really met during childhood, which is why I have emotional problems
well isnt self-actualising when you, 'self', actually realise, 'actualise', your potential and personal mission in life
I have trouble sticking with meditation
be alone is one the key to face your fears and your negative thoughs
Well being alone without any internet, or technology
go into the woods by yourself and reflect
so the only way to do that is to ask yourself the big questions :(quoting from avatar the last airbender) "who are you? and what do you want!?"
get into nature
yep
running alone with your though, exercice,
i do a thing
a mysterious one
when i learned about the validation concept
i changed my phone number and give it only to my family
i cut everything from social network
i just want to be alone and to face it deeper
if you set urself a goal, you inherit a direction - it doesn't matter if you don't achieve the goal as the real asset is direction - as with direction you have channelled focus and can more easily access a 'flow' state of consciousness
^Very true
You have to be clear with yourself though