Message from @Sigma
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elon's gonna nuke the north and south poles and then wait 2 years till he sends ppl over there
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he wants to have a pop of 1 mil on mars before he dies
Comanionship, the feelings of love, sex, emotional connection, etc...What I don't want though is the nagging, someone dumping their emotional shit on me, pointless conversations, the instablity, being cheated on, being disrespecting, being controlled, having to compromise, getting stuck with someone I've lost attraction too
why do you want the feelings of love?
emotional connection
companionship
carry on asking 'why' to those questions
there'll be one fundamental truth that covers all of those things
Well the answer probably lies in the fact that I want to fill a viod
void*
lack of affection
i believe that this is all covered under 'desire' - desiring something brings about positive emotions, regardless of what it is you're desiring
lack of mother or father ?
There's a void within me that I want to fill
you have to work on it, to find why you have this gap and how you can fill it by yourself
I desire the image that is portrayed by being in a relationship
before to go in relationship
@Sigma it's a void left by social conditioning - you can fill it with something else
MMA fills it
easily
self-actualisation is much more fulfilling then meeting your emotional needs - you have a passion for MMA and that's great - don't let anyone sway u off ur path
once you self-actualise, you'll have a scope of how everything fits together
The self-actualization can be visualized by the pyramid. Moslow's hierarchy of human needs
yeah exactly
emotional needs are at the bottom
that's what im refering to
physiological needs are at the bottom
yea
emotional are 2 under self actualisation
i tihnk 2
ooh
you're right
the top one, that wasn't published but maslow was working on just before he died, was self-transcendence that is actually on top of self-actualisation
just googled it
I've heard of self- transcendence
Don't know how to do that
@JDB yeah but I think there is a reason why we have this void, and the reason take place in childhood. i think some part of the maslow hierarchy are build during childhood. If they are not built well, there are those voids
the only way to self-actualise, and then transcend, is to be alone in your head and 'tidy up' things.