we all run on desire, and women are incapable of comprehending what desire runs on - it runs on inadequacy - hence 'the grass is always greener' and i want a 'real man'

i think the women are more sensitive to the "grass is always greener concept" than men

I said this earlier today though...I'd love a loving relationship with a women. But all the things I can imagine about being in a good relationship is fantasy, so why bother and get hurt and fucked up in the end. Also all the effort I have to go through in order to get the very thing that will not turn out as expected

they're just chasing after their own tail - they'll never be happy but they believe there's hope - and hope is what fuels them

@Shido 100%

@Sigma what is it about having a relationship with a women that makes u want to have one?

i believe that if you ask yourself 'why' enough you'll find that you're looking for the right things but in the wrong place

Like I told before, I am really curious to see what will happen in 5 or 10 years

we're going to mars

fucking aliens ?

elon's gonna nuke the north and south poles and then wait 2 years till he sends ppl over there

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he wants to have a pop of 1 mil on mars before he dies

Comanionship, the feelings of love, sex, emotional connection, etc...What I don't want though is the nagging, someone dumping their emotional shit on me, pointless conversations, the instablity, being cheated on, being disrespecting, being controlled, having to compromise, getting stuck with someone I've lost attraction too

why do you want the feelings of love?

emotional connection

companionship

carry on asking 'why' to those questions

there'll be one fundamental truth that covers all of those things

Well the answer probably lies in the fact that I want to fill a viod

void*

lack of affection

i believe that this is all covered under 'desire' - desiring something brings about positive emotions, regardless of what it is you're desiring

lack of mother or father ?

There's a void within me that I want to fill

@Shido think conceptually man, means we can apply to all our lives

you have to work on it, to find why you have this gap and how you can fill it by yourself

I desire the image that is portrayed by being in a relationship

before to go in relationship

@Sigma it's a void left by social conditioning - you can fill it with something else

The way I fill it is through doing stuff

MMA fills it

easily

self-actualisation is much more fulfilling then meeting your emotional needs - you have a passion for MMA and that's great - don't let anyone sway u off ur path

once you self-actualise, you'll have a scope of how everything fits together

The self-actualization can be visualized by the pyramid. Moslow's hierarchy of human needs

yeah exactly

emotional needs are at the bottom

that's what im refering to

physiological needs are at the bottom

yea