How did you get problems? by not playing her game?

i was a bit agressiv with her

because i didnt like the way she was doing her job

she puts the nice, innocent and poor girl filter

and turn all my coworkers against me

Got to be extra careful at work. Would you just aviod women as much as possible at work and give them little to no attention? or would that cause problems too?

If an attractive women worked in my department, I don't talk to her unless she talks to me

@Sigma I recently had a chat with a coworker who was called "creepy" by female coworkers. He's leaving for a new job out west because it affected his self esteem that much. He's one of our best engineers and he's letting a random comment from a woman affect him. It's sad. Before that, he was no lie dating a woman who was on twitch. She entered an open arrangement with him and then she left him months later.

My personal policy is - if it's not work related, I don't speak and get back to work.

These hoes ain't loyal

That's a good rule of thumb to operate on

Work related only, and stay away from them as much as possible

Yup.

This should be a more common topic in the MGTOW community tbh because I haven't seen too much about guidelines to working with women from a MGTOW perspective

@machtyn yeah you just perfectly described how handy finance is. I think every1 should get the base of finance, because it comes in so handy! Although i think Engineers are one of (if not the most) creative people there are, i don’t fit in that kind of creative. I tend to think that Engineers are like really good painters and i suck at painting i don’t consider myself creative in that context. Apart from that like complicated structures but it just doesn’t touch me as a whole. With that being said, i didn’t choose to do medicine to help people as primary reason. I think willing to help people is the base otherwise you won’t make a good physician. I choose medicine primarily because of the fact that i’m so hungry to learn more everyday and medicine offers me that oppurtunity. Then the fact that the human body is just so damn interesting i was occupied with it when i was 12. I remember when my mates were playing video games at highschool, whilst i was looking discection video’s🤣. Can you come to voice chat? I can’t really explain what it means for me to become a dokter typing it

It's simple on the surface level, but it can go into a deep level of social game at work

So many variables to consider

@Sigma I hope it's addressed too. I personally work in a big-4 finance company within tech department and I am lucky because when people come to me its for my knowledge/help. I am a consult essentially so it's usually on point. I set boundaries early on with no personal chit-chat and always bring conversations back to the thing they wanted done.

I'll have to keep that in mind, those boundaries can save you a hell of a lot of trouble down the road

Sorry for my English guys, it isn’t my 1 language haha

We spend sometimes more than 1/3 of our lives working, so this is important

1/3rd actually sounds like an underestimation of it.

That's being generous because if you work only 8 hours per day

sleep 8

the rest is up to you

@CoffeeShopsHQ (Ardahan) I totally understand that. The exact same reason is why I didn't enter medicine. I was taking some biology/chemistry and realized there isn't really any room for creation - it's mostly recitation/absorption of the body of knowledge. I rather BUILD then analyze.

You have to consider that you are tired as shit from work that you're not really going to as much.

Lol.

That too

When you get older and older, it's easier to tire out as well.

I noticed when I'm out of work, I don't want to do anything whatsoever

@Sigma I've been feeling that way more and more 😭

It fucking sucks, because I want to pursue hobbies

@machtyn i want to add to that brother, DON’T be a docter because of the money. Like every job you do for the money and not because you like it, you’ll be miserable in the end. The lifestyle of a medical specislist sucks too not your regular 9 to 5, i know this, but i’m willing to proceed anyways. Honestly i don’t see me doing something else

I'm not here to only work and sleep, I got other ambitions to chase as well

@Sigma I've been trying something a little odd... I've been going to bed at 8-9pm and waking up at 4-5am. I work on projects until 8-9am, go to work, get home at 4-5pm then chill until i go to bed -- sometimes being productive but usually goofing off.

@machtyn woah you gave me chills, you’ve got my respect. It’s very important that you know for yourself what suits you the best. Good luck with your very young career i’m sure you’ll make a heck of a engineer with so long to go

@CoffeeShopsHQ (Ardahan) See... I am jealous of you, brother. I wish I KNEW my ONE THING. I know it's technology/engineering related. I guess I have that going for me. I just don't know "I wouldn't want to do anything else." Don't take that lightly. You have a gift!

Dude, I've woken up at like 2-3AM before work to do things like read, play games, youtube, go to the gym, BUT my major problem is that MMA is at 7:30 PM at night, so it's nearly impossible to get there because of work in the morning and absolutely no energy

@CoffeeShopsHQ (Ardahan) Yes! I plan on advancing until senior engineer but once they start asking me to become management - I will bounce to work as a consultant - making bank.

@Sigma Fuck... yeah, that's not going to work then