Message from @machtyn
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@CoffeeShopsHQ (Ardahan) I absolutely love it. I meant personal finance, as in, how to properly save/invest for yourself and living below your means so you can retire early. If you're becoming a doctor, you'll have a large salary and will be tempted to ball out but if you're smart you can ball out and retire really young. What made you choose medicine over engineering? I've always felt a love for people but I shadowed doctors/nurses and patient care is boring to me. I rather build things. The human body is the coolest system ever, though!
this why
men act like dogs, and try to impress her
exactly that
It can turn everyone against one another though and it would be a disaster in the end
I was young and dont know about this, but i got in problems one time, because i saw her game, and she turn all my coworkers against me
they became suspicious about me lol
How did you get problems? by not playing her game?
i was a bit agressiv with her
because i didnt like the way she was doing her job
she puts the nice, innocent and poor girl filter
and turn all my coworkers against me
Got to be extra careful at work. Would you just aviod women as much as possible at work and give them little to no attention? or would that cause problems too?
If an attractive women worked in my department, I don't talk to her unless she talks to me
@Sigma I recently had a chat with a coworker who was called "creepy" by female coworkers. He's leaving for a new job out west because it affected his self esteem that much. He's one of our best engineers and he's letting a random comment from a woman affect him. It's sad. Before that, he was no lie dating a woman who was on twitch. She entered an open arrangement with him and then she left him months later.
My personal policy is - if it's not work related, I don't speak and get back to work.
These hoes ain't loyal
That's a good rule of thumb to operate on
Work related only, and stay away from them as much as possible
This should be a more common topic in the MGTOW community tbh because I haven't seen too much about guidelines to working with women from a MGTOW perspective
@machtyn yeah you just perfectly described how handy finance is. I think every1 should get the base of finance, because it comes in so handy! Although i think Engineers are one of (if not the most) creative people there are, i don’t fit in that kind of creative. I tend to think that Engineers are like really good painters and i suck at painting i don’t consider myself creative in that context. Apart from that like complicated structures but it just doesn’t touch me as a whole. With that being said, i didn’t choose to do medicine to help people as primary reason. I think willing to help people is the base otherwise you won’t make a good physician. I choose medicine primarily because of the fact that i’m so hungry to learn more everyday and medicine offers me that oppurtunity. Then the fact that the human body is just so damn interesting i was occupied with it when i was 12. I remember when my mates were playing video games at highschool, whilst i was looking discection video’s🤣. Can you come to voice chat? I can’t really explain what it means for me to become a dokter typing it
It's simple on the surface level, but it can go into a deep level of social game at work
So many variables to consider
@Sigma I hope it's addressed too. I personally work in a big-4 finance company within tech department and I am lucky because when people come to me its for my knowledge/help. I am a consult essentially so it's usually on point. I set boundaries early on with no personal chit-chat and always bring conversations back to the thing they wanted done.
I'll have to keep that in mind, those boundaries can save you a hell of a lot of trouble down the road
Sorry for my English guys, it isn’t my 1 language haha
We spend sometimes more than 1/3 of our lives working, so this is important
1/3rd actually sounds like an underestimation of it.
That's being generous because if you work only 8 hours per day
sleep 8
the rest is up to you
@CoffeeShopsHQ (Ardahan) I totally understand that. The exact same reason is why I didn't enter medicine. I was taking some biology/chemistry and realized there isn't really any room for creation - it's mostly recitation/absorption of the body of knowledge. I rather BUILD then analyze.
You have to consider that you are tired as shit from work that you're not really going to as much.
Lol.
That too
When you get older and older, it's easier to tire out as well.
I noticed when I'm out of work, I don't want to do anything whatsoever
It fucking sucks, because I want to pursue hobbies