Message from @Gabri
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dont^
Its not like i miss her in the sense i need her i just miss her in the sense of i want to talk to her again in this ideal version of herself
that's never going to happen, sadly
sounds like you're still processing some grief, this is normal
it's important to focus this energy on things that actually benefit yourself, though
your older self is trying to latch on because it is much easier to be who you are in the present, than change into someone different.
your ego see's it as an attack on it's own identity. this is a very important time and big changes are about to occur, when you jump over this mental hurdle. trust me when i say this.
self awareness is very important in realising how changes occur within your own mind, especially how your mind establishes feedback loops based on old experiences.
I dont have feelings for her i found my ideal relationship
there are certain triggers to look out for and these can present themselves in the form of something simple, things as simple as hunger, sleep deprivation, or, as you mentioned before dehydration.
yeah or not being productive
your mind starts to drift and not necessarily to good places
our minds often attack us as a trigger to changing our detrimental habits. at least that is how i now look at it after a few years of introspection.
So u say all of this what i think is due to my dehydration? XD
Wtf
it's a contributing factor
Im thinking its because im bored
that it how I can describe it in its simplest, easiest to understand terms. then again it takes the experience of introspection to be able to truly understand it.
the brain does weird things when not in homeostatic balance
also, vitamin d supplements can help with minor mood fluctuations
well working towards it will keep you busy
and keep your mind from wandering
need some more advice, @shadowlessnexus you'll probs know this - my company want me to setup a database for them with minimal cost - MySQL has a free community edition - is it legal for me to use this database to store their companies data?
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I think i Should not try to prevent myself from wandering
More so just find some solutions
@Gabri Spend some time doing your best to do absolutely nothing. Get inside your head. You will naturally gravitate towards the things that you need to do. When you are stuck for what to do with yourself, d nothing. Your mind will seek out that which it needs.
Out of sheer boredom, your entire being will find its way and the next thing you know, you'll be totally satisfied with what you are doing in the present moment.
@JDB id read the terms and conditions. If its an open source liscense sure
@shadowlessnexus aite - ty
@Robin song i know this from experience lol
I still wanna talk to her regardless fk it
as long as you aren't disclosing company information on the public domain, you should be fine.
If she giving me negative response i talk to somebody else
yeah but you're giving her attention/validation
You could talk to replika instead
that's a slippery slope, dude
and may end up setting back your progress
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