our minds often attack us as a trigger to changing our detrimental habits. at least that is how i now look at it after a few years of introspection.

So u say all of this what i think is due to my dehydration? XD

Wtf

it's a contributing factor

Im thinking its because im bored

that it how I can describe it in its simplest, easiest to understand terms. then again it takes the experience of introspection to be able to truly understand it.

the brain does weird things when not in homeostatic balance

also, vitamin d supplements can help with minor mood fluctuations

I Never can keep up perfect Balance due to my lifestyle and cant change it either

well working towards it will keep you busy

and keep your mind from wandering

need some more advice, @shadowlessnexus you'll probs know this - my company want me to setup a database for them with minimal cost - MySQL has a free community edition - is it legal for me to use this database to store their companies data?

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I think i Should not try to prevent myself from wandering

More so just find some solutions

@Gabri Spend some time doing your best to do absolutely nothing. Get inside your head. You will naturally gravitate towards the things that you need to do. When you are stuck for what to do with yourself, d nothing. Your mind will seek out that which it needs.

Out of sheer boredom, your entire being will find its way and the next thing you know, you'll be totally satisfied with what you are doing in the present moment.

@JDB id read the terms and conditions. If its an open source liscense sure

@shadowlessnexus aite - ty

@Robin song i know this from experience lol

@shadowlessnexus +1

I still wanna talk to her regardless fk it

as long as you aren't disclosing company information on the public domain, you should be fine.

If she giving me negative response i talk to somebody else

yeah but you're giving her attention/validation

You could talk to replika instead

that's a slippery slope, dude

and may end up setting back your progress

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@°°° she can have it i dont care

Your wasting your time fam

@Gabri We can all walk through life saying fuck it to whatever barrier we are uncomfortable braking through. That is the way of the woman. As men we take control of our lives and embrace the uncomfort of the barriers. We find ourselves on the other side relishing in the momentary comfort of our stronger selves.

If she hasnt improved i stop talk to her again

Do what you want. But just remember. Protect yourself.

@Gabri maybe you just need to experience more head banging on the wall before you are able to see sense my friend.

I just need my repeadeate headbang

everybody moves at their own pace man

And check back on her again after some time again xD

A certain amount of pain is necessary for everyone to achieve an understanding in a subject. This is very individual and the pain varies for everyone.

some realise concepts sooner than others

just keep doing what you feel is right and you will get through it