@Angry. I don't care. It'll damage their reputation, at least. I'll make them feel guilty, which is my punishment, and if I get friends from it, so be it.

What is this autism?
If you think they're shit friends, then they ARE shit friends.

Also, what makes you think they would care that much?

They already would have ghosted you in the first place

I want an excuse to get mad at them without appearing like an incel terror threat. Everyone can relate to getting stood up at a birthday. It's somthing everyone thinks is awful that it would happen to someone.

Social revenge is tricky, it can backfire

I suppose

I generally don't go out of my way for revenge because it's a waste of time and energy. If you spurn me I will disassociate myself from you, no more

Dude, just get mad at them.
Then you go and do something else

But if you come to me because you need something, making yourself vulnerable to strategic denial of resources, I'm happy to take that chance

Respect is earned, not given, etc etc

Are you looking for some sweet Schadenfreude?

because that's the only thing i can envision that this is for

Revenge is like kinky sex, you might really crave it and it might seem like a really great idea in your head, but once you've gone through it and wake up on the other end you're gonna be thinking "what the fuck did I just do?"

@Octo Nowhere else to go

I get that respect is earned, but nobody gives me a chance to earn it.

Then take it

also, school relationships mean basically nothing

I'm not gonna pretend I have good advice to give, my friendship circle is very limited and I get by simply by being technically competent, not socially competent

Having a friend will make this place somwhat bearable.

Where are you anyway, college? Uni?

I think he's in high school

Ah

@The Eternal Swede 6th form

That doesn't mean anything to me, the swedish school system too different

It's mandatory for 16-18 year olds . And I hate it.

College or sixth form, is mandatory in the UK

Ah, we have a similar system then

Sixth form is basically college course you take at your secondary school.

That's when I started to get to hang out with mostly likeminded people, since we got to chose what direction we were taking our studies

Wish I had some advice but I'm bad at making friends

Wear clean clothes, shower and be clean and don't be rude are the basics, but beyond that I don't know

How I make friends and who I do it with seems to be mostly a matter of opportunity, who isn't already in a friend group at the moment when we're having a positive interaction, and is also going to remain in my proximity for a longer while without a friend group

I guess we naturally try to form new social groups to be within

Jeffrey "where to send money?" Epstein

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S2OoVC9Em9c

https://soundcloud.com/lilrainbo/hot-stuff-1

https://twitter.com/AmFirstHebrew/status/1199408453074268160?s=20

can we get an exception for ace gang