No many want them to just be happy

it's egoistic

but we call it altruism

Again I disagree

no one wants others to just be happy if they dont benefit

I want other people to be happy around me so I can be happy as well

I recognise I am happy when others are happy

That's wrong, I've seen many do it.

you have

Including myself

but you dont know they are being secretly egoists not knowing it

I've wanted people to be happy before and I knew I wouldnt benefit from it nor did I want to.

you don't know it consciously

it's subconscious

thats what stirner called involountary egoists

and volountary egoists are ones that ecognise their egoism

you dont recognise it and think it's altruism

why would it be subconscious even after hours of deep thinking?

but really deep down it's all egoism

maybe you are not used to it

its party egoism but there is also altruism

you can call it altruism

but it's not

we assume it

no its partly both

I think i know what you mean

a lot of people dont experience egoism is a lot of actions like killing themselves

giving flowers to people because it makes you happy is purely egoistic tho

but it appears altruisitc because you ar ehelping others

so we say it's altruism

because they are not aware of it

Yes but what if it doesnt make you happy and if you dont want to be happy but do it anyway?

we are egoists deep down

well you wont do it

Thats wrong, many people do it including me

one reason you might because you think it will make you a good person

you are doing a "good cause"

which is just like morality

abstract and doesnt exist

you are lying to yourself

Again that doesnt explain people dying for others